by Lawrence Wilson, MD

DRESS MODESTLY, AND WHY NOT DRESS DOWN?

This article is mainly for women, but it applies to some men as well. Here are just some of the reasons for dressing modestly:

1. Safety! You may not realize it, but dressing like a slut or prostitute invites predators, excites the male passions, inflames the penises and puts you in real danger. Just read the papers about how many prostitutes are murdered, without any seeming motive. It never makes sense to inflame the passions of the male organs for any reason unless you are alone with your lover/husband and it is all planned.

You never know when you are driving, for example, if you car breaks down or you have a flat tire, or someone you are with breaks down and you must walk through a bad neighborhood. You should always be prepared for this, because it happens all the time. Be prepared, and one of the simplest ways is to always dress like you are going to walk through dark alleys alone and you need to be covered up adequately.

2. Professionalism. It is always wise to look like a professional lady, even if you are just a student, a housewife, or just anything else. It gives you respect, and people will listen to you far more. You will carry a certain authority. It should not be so, because people should listen to you no matter how you look. However, it is true that uniforms carry authority with them. You need not spend a lot on the clothes. It is more about the look than the actual design or even condition of the clothing.

3. Attracting only what you want and need, and nothing else. The way you dress can either cause people to be more interested in you, or it can turn them off to you, meaning it makes them walk away. This is called signaling. It is very real, and women all over the world do it unconsciously. So decide what and who you are looking for, and often, though not always, you will get it – or him, provided you have integrity – meaning you look the part, also.

So ladies, if you want a fine man, look like a fine woman. If you want a man of decency, and I hope you do, then look like a woman of decency. If you want a man of wealth or means, then look like a woman who deserves, desires and cares for money. It does not mean to “look like a million dollars”. It means to look modest, wholesome, and healthy.

4. Putting others at ease. It is extremely helpful to help others feel at ease with you. They will treat you better, smile more, be more helpful to you when you need help, and so on. Did you know that many people feel very uncomfortable around others who are dressed in either seductive clothing, torn clothing, dirty clothing, or even too formal clothing with lots of makeup, for example? When you dress for fun, you are ignoring the way others will feel around you.

You never know when you will need to deal with authorities like the police, the firemen, or others. It is always helpful to dress nicely, and look older and responsible. They will treat you with far more respect and even awe, rather than treat you like a pimply kid who doesn’t know how to dress right, and, they may guess from your outfit, has an unhealthy lifestyle.

5. Causing people to pay heed and listen to you, and do what you tell them. This may seem like an odd reason, but it is very important to appear, look and talk like an authority figure, at times.

For example, a little girl might stray into the traffic and you must yell out, “Come here at once and get out of the road”. If you are dressed like a whore, people are much less likely to pay heed. If you are ever accosted, being dressed cleanly and professionally is definitely an asset as well. It is simply harder to take off more clothing.

6. Avoiding a wrong focus in your life, and in what you project to others. This is a critical reason. If you are not a whore, why dress like one? It is not cool, as some think. It is stupid, demeaning, and very dangerous in some places and situations.

But it is also a wrong focus. It is a focus on the lower energy centers of the body, a focus on your physical body, a focus on sex, a focus on flesh instead of spirit, and a focus on you, the ego, rather than a focus on you the brainchild and the spiritual child of god. Dressing slutty is a completely wrong focus.

7. Staying warm. It is always foolish to dress in a way that you might become chilled. It is easy to catch cold, catch pneumonia, and letting yourself get cold always activates the sympathetic nervous system, which is harmful in the extreme for your health. This is a long, involved topic discussed in depth in the article called Sympathetic Dominance on this website.

Allowing yourself to become cold, chilled, uncomfortable or even to have the possibility of doing this, is simply foolish. It indicates an immature, silly and ignorant person, usually one who did not have good parenting to remind her that getting cold is never good for your physical, emotional or mental health.

8. What does it say to you? Dressing is also about the messages you send to yourself. Sadly, many young women say to themselves and to the world with their dress:

“I am a woman now. Look at me. I have a great body. I can do and say and dress any way I want. I am free. I am liberated and what’s wrong with showing a little tit or leg or crotch”.

This is all true, to some extent. But let’s look at it a little closer. Here is what is wrong with this all too common attitude:

1. It is all about you. The world, however, is not about you. So showing off you tits is not really liberation, except on a teenage level. On an adult level, you are so much more than tits and crotch that it isn’t even funny. You are a whole person, and focusing on your body is actually depressing and immature because it denies who you really are.

2. It is extremely immature.

3. It is stupid and dangerous.

Hidden messages to yourself. The above attitude that I can do what I want, and what is wrong with flaunting the body a little, also contains hidden messages to yourself and others. These include:

1.I must be in competition with other women to attract the boys or men.

2. I am really insecure about my body so I must flaunt it.

3. I am attractive if can turn heads. This is just a big ego trip and insecurity, once again.

4. I want to raise penises. This is another big ego trip, or it is vampirism, meaning a desire to tease, upset and get a little energy off the men. (not a good idea unless you want to be raped, beaten and maybe killed.

5. Maybe I want to be raped or beaten up so I can hate men like I hate my Dad, so I “invite trouble”.

These are the hidden messages that you are sending yourself.

Many young and older women also feel like tramps, or feel unclean or loose, even if they are not. This can be due to entity possession, past traumas like rapes, incest or molestation, or even just for “fun”.

Deciding you will dress modestly and professionally can be literally painful for these women, and obnoxious and even odious or burdensome. But that is because dressing modestly begins to send different self messages that the woman is unprepared to accept, or perhaps an entity is unprepared to accept. But it will help to save you, dear ones, really it will. Fight the urge to rip off the nice clothes and play whore. Fight it hard and you will win your soul in some cases. It is a little struggle that young teens and others must often face.

9. Resisting peer pressure and societal pressures. Many attractive women feel that it is expected of them to dress sexy, or dress slutty. Sadly, their fathers, boyfriends, girlfriends and even mothers tell them it is okay to dress ‘stunning’, ‘knockout’, ‘cool’, ‘nifty’, and other such descriptions.

The immature boys and men like the penises to go up, the fathers can be “proud” of their daughter’s body parts, and the mothers are secretly resentful, hate men and boys, and secretly love their daughters to “shine” and “stick out”, if you know what I mean. Some mothers and fathers even want to ruin you, want you to go down in flames, so to speak, to make them feel better or to satisfy their entities, and it gets even more complex than this.

All of this puts extreme pressure on many young women, and even older ones. However, you have a choice. Bow to these insane pressures, often unconscious and often due to entity possession, trauma and other dark forces, or pick yourself up, stop playing the patsy and live your life as a dignified lady. Realize that you were playing into the hands of the media and the darkness, the lower side of society and sadly to parents and others, and realize that you want to be on the side of the light.

Try to realize that dark forces are real, and they love invading women and making the women walk, talk, and look like sluts and whores. This is a hard truth to swallow for many “innocent young maidens”, but it is true. But all of us are subject to forces that seek to corrupt your morals, as the Christians know and talk about. You may not agree with all that they say, but about this they are correct. So beware that maybe your dress is not really your dress, but is what others want – others that you can see and hear, and others that influence you in subtle ways that the Christians call demons or entities.

10. Setting a good example for others. Wherever you go, and whatever you wear and do, you are setting an example. Did you know that? It is true. You set an example for other young women, for men, for older people and of course, for the children and those younger than you. Do you realize that you have this power, every one of you? Therefore, be careful about the example you set.

For example, you might lead another young girl into prostitution because you are dressing like a whore and she doesn’t realize that you are just “playing”, meaning you are not really a prostitute you are just dressing like one. She may not realize it and think that prostitution is cool because you are doing it. Be careful – beware - because you will may be responsible if this happens. You can lead others astray, and this is a serious spiritual crime. Stop it now, even if you don’t want to!

Also, what kind of example are you setting for your society – for the way you want society to be? Ask yourself this question and decide if you really want the women looking like whores. It may help you change your ways.

11. Enraging the women and exciting the penises. We have touched on this subject and it is a very important one. You can actually be killed, maimed, raped, or just become unpopular because you feel you must show off your stuff to people who do not really appreciate it or understand it, and they become upset.

Any time you “up” people – upset them, mess them up, screw them up, etc. it is dangerous, foolish, harmful for your health and theirs, and quite insane. Please do not “up” people with your breasts, for example, ladies, or other body parts. That is the effect of showing them off, even to your husband in the privacy of the bedroom. Be careful, as you are more powerful this way than you think.

12. Letting go of the “innocent maiden” scam. Many young women, especially, but even older ones, think they are just innocent maidens who can do and go and dress as they please, because they are so innocent and sweet.

Don’t fall for the innocent maiden concept. No one of you are that innocent, no matter what you believe or see on television or in the fake movies and Youtube and ipod fictions. At one level, all are innocent, but at another level you are not innocent at all, and sex, by the way, is never an innocent pursuit. It always carries consequences, and the women are always the losers. The women get pregnant, the women get the worst diseases, and the women get the shame. So I repeat, don’t fall for the innocent maiden trick. The media loves it, but it is a lie.

13. What about dressing down for fun? Dressing for fun is fine. Dressing down is not wise, even if it is fun for pretty young girls. That is the bottom line, as they say. Dressing down gets you in heaps of trouble, so it is not worth it. Do it in front of your husband, perhaps, or maybe with girlfriends only. But not in public, and that includes Facebook, Myspace and other such places.

14. What to do when Dad, and even Mom, tell you it is okay to dress sexy, or just let you get away with it. Basically tell them it is not okay, and you are sorry they don’t understand the world better. Leave it there, or you will become even angrier that they are not disciplining you as they should.

MINERAL IMBALANCES AND HOW YOU DRESS

1. Cadmium and dressing immodestly. Cadmium toxicity can cause a woman or man to dress loosely. This is a nutritional problem. If you are not succeeding in overcoming the dress problem easily as you read this article, most likely you are high in cadmium. It makes you “macho” or risk-taking, showoff, vampire-like and “tough” and hardened, so you don’t feel exactly what you are doing.

This is the effect of this extremely toxic and hardening metal in your body. It is very common today, as it is used in brake linings of cars, cigarette papers, marijuana cigarettes, and it gets into the air, water and food. Especially if you eat refined and junk food like sugars, soda pop, white breads and white rice all the time, the cadmium replaces zinc and other minerals that are low, and builds up in the body, and affects the brain in the ways described above. It is a fascinating mineral, but one that will tend to make you dress up like a whore and enjoy it when it should repulse you.

If you think your body chemistry is off, do something about it. This website has the answers. Begin with the article The Healing Lifestyle, which sets out a basic program. If you can afford it, send in a hair sample or visit one of the Approved Practitioners to get on a program to clear out the cadmium from your system.

2. Copper and dressing immodestly, sassy or slutty. Copper is another mineral that, when in excess, causes young women and men to dress in unseemly ways. Copper is different than cadmium. It is a ‘female’ mineral that makes women more emotional, more spacy, not as aware, more into “fun”, for example, in a sloppy way, and more interested in excitement, happiness and joy, to the exclusion of common sense in many cases.

Get copper into balance and you will calm down, relax, see things clearly and realize you’ve been kind of stupid and a “space cadet”, playing with things you should not be playing with. This is the copper story. To balance copper, read Copper Toxicity Syndrome and look at the same article as above, The Healing Lifestyle.

3. Iron imbalance makes men and women dress sexy, too. Iron is somewhat like cadmium. It insulates you, makes more a little macho, gives you courage that is false, makes you “righteously angry” or so you believe, and makes you somewhat aggressive sexually, and even more attractive sexually than you would otherwise be.

So get this one into balance, too, ladies. A nutritional balancing program will balance all the minerals – at least two dozen, and remove the toxic ones. That is the beauty of this program over others that just focus on copper or lead, or something else.

4. High and low calcium slutty clothing. High calcium immodesty is a common imbalance. These women or men are out of touch and suppressed, so their emotions, desires and secret attitudes come out in odd or unusual ways, one of which can be their dress.

Low-calcium immodest dressing. These are fast oxidizer women and men. They are fortunately rather rare. They have higher male hormone levels and are quite sexually aggressive. They are vampires for the most part. This doesn’t mean they suck blood. It means they enjoy enticing men, angering women, ruining children’s innocence, and generally creating havoc. One way they do this is dressing in immodest ways. To read about these vampires, read Energetic Vampires on this site.

I could go on with a dozen other mineral imbalances – or 50 more – but we’ll keep this short.

I know this article sounds like a downer, but it is only because I don’t want you to be down for any reason, if you know what I mean.

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