SEX IS NOT BEAUTIFUL

by Lawrence Wilson, MD

Many people worship sex, almost like it is their god or perhaps their goddess. In fact, in ancient Greece there was the goddess Eros, who was known for her erotic beauty and qualities. Her name is the origin of our word erotic. Sex is used to sell every product and service imaginable, and in this regard it is a type of god in our modern society.

However, the truth is that the sex act or sexual intercourse is merely the coupling of two bodies, and needed for the purpose of reproducing the species. True, it causes a special tingling sensation in the body, and it can relax the mind and the emotions. It also causes a subtle energy exchange and even some identity exchange. So it is rather complex. However, to just say it is beautiful is incorrect. A more correct statement is to say that it can be a part of a loving relationship and it can assist people in some ways. However, as most people know, it can also spread disease, make one ashamed and embarrassed, or worse, as those who have been raped know well.

In contrast, just touching each other lovingly without orgasm, hugging, and holding one another are perfectly fine.

WHY IS THIS UNDERSTANDING IMPORTANT?

It is important for many reasons including one’s safety, health, self-esteem, and others. It is also especially important if one is to progress with nutritional balancing science because too much sex, for any reason at all, whether out of love, or boredom, or seduction, or for any reason, tends to slow progress dramatically. This occurs because sexual fluids contain vast amounts of nutrients that are difficult to replace with foods and nutritional supplements. If one has sex with fluid loss more than about once a week, one depletes these vital nutrients and progress in healing slows or even stops. This is very important to understand, and perhaps is not clearly stated in some other articles and books I have written.

SEX WITHOUT LOVE IS THEREFORE USUALLY STUPID

One result or implication of the above is that just having sex because you feel obligated, or you are bored, or you think it is fun, is actually rather stupid. It just slows your progress on the path to healing and mental development, especially. It does this in many ways, not just nutritionally. It keeps one’s attention focused on the lower energy centers of the body , for example. This is always a selfish focus and one that impairs brain development that involves the upper energy centers of the body.

Sex also wastes a type of etheric or subtle energy as well, that can never be replaced, or in most cases is never replaced. It also opens one to diseases if one engages in loose sexual behavior, and it opens women, particularly, to rape. This is unavoidable, ladies, by the way. If you are having a lot of sex, you are automatically subject to rape, which can mean little more than that a man keeps going longer than you tell him to. This is all it takes to deplete a lady sexually and effectively rape her.

Too much sexual activity is also a total waste of time, and often stimulates lewd and unclean thoughts, such as how great it would be to have sex with one’s non-marital friends, employees, employers, teachers, students, doctor, lawyers, and others with whom it is not appropriate or even nice to think about.

Another important problem in many, but not all situations, is that during orgasm, the aura or energy field opens up very wide, and both partners are mixed in a subtle energetic way. In fact, a degree of identity exchange takes place in all cases. This is a very subtle concept discussed in more detail in the article on this website entitled Rape. Some people notice that after having sex they are somewhat confused, unclear about their identity, and off their center or base. This can last for at least a week or two, or much longer in the case of rape, perhaps. This mixing of the subtle energy fields can be positive, by the way, but often it is not, and it particularly upsets sensitive women, for example. They think it is “love” or normal, but it is not necessarily so.

Another problem with a lot of sex, in some cases, is that sex is a common way that some people vampirize or steal subtle energy from others. This is more common than one may imagine. It is a separate topic discussed in the article entitled Psychic Vampirism on this website. It is, in fact, a very important topic of discussion in regards to sexual activity, but one that is beyond the scope of this article, except to mention that it is a factor in casual sex, in particular, but also in some marriages. Giving up your energy and identity to others is an important cause of depression and illness, and even early death. So for all these reasons, too much sex is not helpful, and it is not beautiful.

Another problem with focusing on sex as beautiful is that usually such people will worship youth, and will not respect, or even hate, themselves and perhaps others who are older and less beautiful looking or less sexy looking. Other problems are dressing in ways that are unhealthful, such as not wearing enough clothing to keep warm, or wearing high heeled or fashionable shoes that deform the feet.

Some fashionable or sexy habits may cause toxic chemical and toxic metal poisoning such as dying the hair, wearing certain makeup, and even using toxic body lotions, shampoos, perfumes, and others. This may seem trivial but it is not so, in fact. Especially younger teenage girls often love to see how they can “doll up” the body with smelly and toxic products sold in every drugstore and supermarket.

Even if you are not having sex often because you are single, or young, or married to someone who is not that interested, the belief that sex is beautiful is often harmful because it is incorrect, and it drives women, in particular, to impure thoughts and the use of clothing, body care products and other things that are harmful. It can also cause the masturbation habit, which is harmful. This is explained in the article entitled Masturbation on this website.

THE MASS MEDIA AND SEX

There is no question that the mass media uses sex or sexual innuendo to improve its ratings, sell products and services, and in other ways to draw people’s attention to what the producers and advertisers want. They do this mainly through images, at times through subliminal images and gestures, for example, and through the use of musical tones, voice inflection, dress, settings like romantic beaches with scantily clad ladies swimming among the dolphins, and much more.

They may not realize what they are doing, but in their efforts to win ratings and sell products, they are reinforcing and promoting the false belief that sex, of itself, is beautiful and good. The answer is not to shut yourself off from the media, but just to realize the false nature of most of their photography.

BENEFITS OF THE ‘SEX IS BEAUTIFUL’ IDEA

Believing that sex, of itself is beautiful serves to bring men and women together in close relationships. This helps some people work out various issues and problems between them, and within each person. In fact, some spiritual books and teachings say that close human relationships are our salvation. This is another deep topic discussed in other articles on this website.

The idea also serves to ensure the continuation of the human species on earth, which of course is important in many ways to provide a “home” for several billion souls who wish to experience life on planet earth. Believing that sex is beautiful might also teach a few other lessons in rare circumstances, but not many that I can think of right now. However, this does not alter the deeper truth that sex, in and of itself, is not beautiful or special, although it causes a tingling sensation in the bodies that is interpreted as pleasurable.

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