by Lawrence Wilson, MD

MANY WOMEN FEAR THE ROD

Many women fear men. This is a simple and commonsense idea, and a true one. This article is designed to help explain more about this fear.

WHY DO WOMEN FEAR MEN?

The reasons are mainly simple ones, as follows. However, some are not as simple. By becoming aware of them, it may help some women and men to understand each other better. That is the goal of this article. Women fear men, and men’s penises for many reasons, such as:

· Fear of getting pregnant when they don’t want to.

· Fear of sexually transmitted diseases.

· Fear that the men don’t really love them and will disappointment them. Most women are looking for what they believe is love. Instead, they believe, they just get a penis.

· Fear of upward-moving energy. This interesting and powerful topic is discussed in a separate article on this site entitled Downward-Moving Energy And Healing.

· Fear of splitting. This is a subtle effect of sexual intercourse that most women notice. Sex makes them more yin because it “splits” their bodies in two halves. This is hard to describe, but is true.

· Fear of penetration, which means the man being rough and perhaps even abusive. The man can give her pleasure and still be abusive by not respecting the woman’s pleas to stop, for example, when she has had enough.

· Fear of loss of control of her emotions and her body.

· Fear of brutality and coarseness, which is a quality of many men.

· Fear of tearing the vagina during sex. Women’s bodies are far more delicate than most men’s bodies, and women are more concerned with their health than most men.

· Fear of rape, which means more than a stranger grabbing her in a dark alley. Many women feel raped by their husbands because the man does not respect her as a woman, but merely treats her as a sex object, and some men have no guilt or remorse about these feelings. It is normal for a man to feel overwhelmed by sexual feelings for a woman. However, he should have some remorse about this, realizing it is due to hormones and it is not “loving”. When a man does not have these feelings, women feel raped, at least to a degree.

· Fear of energetic pollution, which means the woman picks up the energy of the man and does not like the feeling.

· Fear of being focused on the pelvis, and on her physical body, when this is not where most women want to put their focus. They do not consider it a beautiful part of their bodies, although it is when it has been purified properly. It is not their brains, or their hearts, but men do not understand this, especially those driven mainly by hormones.

· Fear of inflaming the sexual passions. Some women would rather live a more cultured and calm life. Repeated sexual incursions take away from this effort.

· Fear of confusion between appearance and reality. Sex should be a small part of life, but for many couples it becomes a major issue. It becomes the butt of jokes, it becomes the dinner table talk about buying the right clothes and having the right sexy vacation, and so on. This is all very confusing to a smart and aware woman.

· Fear of the jealousy of other women. This is an important one for some women, particularly those who work in the man’s office world, or are married to famous men, or rich men, or some other situations like this. Here there is often underlying competition, jealousy, rage, envy and other problems associated with getting the man’s penis, who is getting it most of the time, who is faithful to whom, and so on. It not just about having affairs, but is more of a psychological and emotional issue as well about faithfulness. The rod, once again, is the focus.

· Other energetic damage. Other subtle interactions occur during and after sexual relations. Most women and men are unaware of them, except in a vague way. However, often they cause difficulty for women more than for men. They include a certain embarrassment, and some uncertainty about the properness and correctness of the sexual situation.

· Women fear that they will come to hate their bodies, their pelvises, in particular, hate their men and their children, and in fact, hate their entire lives over this problem.

· Fear of men may expand and many women become fearful of all things male, and all things yang (the masculine principle in nature). This is particular damaging to women, as there are many wonderful things in the world that are associated with men and the masculine principle of life. These include integrity, honesty, hard work, love of country, and others that many women have come to fear and then hate. This cripples many women, especially the political liberals and progressives. They turn the other way and become extremely destructive to themselves and for the nation.

· Fear that one will come to hate oneself for hating the rod. This is also the truth, although it may sound contradictory. Sex is such an accepted part of society that secretly hating it causes a lot of angst and self-loathing.

· Many women also fear becoming a lesbian. This may sound strange, but it is true to a degree. This is not meant as a condemnation of lesbianism, which works for some women, but it is an effort to point out that many women are lesbians not out of love for women, but out of fear of the rod and of men. Thus, their relationships with other women are tainted. They look for a non-threatening partner, and that is about all. This is not the same as genuine love for another person. It is an escape-based relationship, not a love-based relationship. It is not what it seems to be. It is easy, so it is pursued. It is hard to pursue a true man-woman relationship, so that is avoided.

· Women who are fearful of the rod also always fall into a love-hate type of relationship whenever they are in a relationship with a man. This is horrible for most women, who love, but also hate or fear their man, no matter how honest, aware and upstanding he is.

· Fear due to the fact that the man or the woman is not ready for a deep relationship. This happens all the time.

· Fear of the rod leads women to stay more yin. They may do this unconsciously by eating more fruit or sweets, avoiding eating enough meat and eggs, or by other means. The effects are the women remain somewhat immature, somewhat selfish, often conniving, perhaps dishonest, out of integrity, often scattered, depressed, anxious, ill, controlling and other types of attitudes, habits and behaviors that are not fitting for mature people. I will call this a yang blockade. It effectively slows or can stop mental and spiritual development of a woman, and for this reason, it can be the worst consequence of fearing the rod.

· Some women also distract themselves from their fear by focusing on material pursuits, instead of pursuing love and real development. For example, they may focus on decorating their homes, decorating their bodies, controlling their children and husbands, living a sterile business career life, and other less fulfilling and more superficial pursuits.

· Women also fear speaking about this issue, which is why this article is being written and circulated. At least by speaking about it, the fear can come out for all to see and hopefully for all to heal together.

· The worst consequence of this fear is that women decide that life is bad and death would be better. They literally become depressed and angry for the remainder of their lives. They no longer wish to live. This is the fate of far too many lovely young and older women.

· Finally, a horrible and dreadful fear is that maybe love is real. Maybe men are not that bad. Maybe love is a real thing, and this could be the real thing.
Women fear the longing in their heart chakra that they begin to feel when they connect deeply and correctly and non-sexually with a good man. This is a horrible feeling, and it drives many women, and even men, away from loving relationships. This is woman’s deepest fear and one I hope that all women will experience and love and move beyond, as that is the real answer to all the fears above. That is, believe in love and let go of all the rest. Yes, the rest of them are true, and most men are not worth the time of day. However, there are a few out there who are worth more than all one can give. So stay open, women. You never know who will come around to say hello.

WHAT IS THE ANSWER FOR THESE FEARS?

For men. The first step is to read this article and realize it is not insanity. It is the truth. The next step is to realize that his rod is a problem child. If he can grasp this strange idea, then he figure out that his rod must become a servant, not his ruler. This is a rather crude way to put it. However, it means that hormones and the rod must not rule a man’s life.

He must then convey this entire concept to his wife or partner in a way that does not further scare her and, in fact, reassures her that he knows that his rod is not his master, and certainly it is not her master.

This may be easy to say, but not easy to actually accomplish. Mr. Roy Masters writes that men must learn to meditate properly in order to bring in a new energy into their bodies that will motivate and move them in new directions. Eventually they will love it, but not at first. It simply does not feel “natural”. It will seem that they are going against their “impulses”. Other men will think them very lame, shy, backwards, nerdy, sissy or whatever. But the man must go through this phase, in most cases, to realize that the rod is not all that it seems to be. It is simply nature’s way to ensure the continuation of the human species, and that is about all it is. This is a real let-down, as they say. But it is an essential step in gaining control over his hormones and his rod.

For women. The solution to the fear of men is probably going to be one or a combination of the following:

· Counseling. This may help, but only with someone trained in this area who is extremely careful how to counsel, and who has completed the work within himself or herself. Extremely few of these counselors live in the world today.

· Real love with an aware man in her life who will read this article, and a few other articles on this website with her, and who is capable of waking up, taking heed, and working out the problem with her in their sexual relationship. This may not be easy to find. However, more and more men of this type are becoming available, so don’t give up, ladies.

· A male friend who will at least talk about it honestly and openly. This can be very helpful to talk to about it with, but often not as helpful as a male sexual partner of the type described above.

· Clear it alone. A woman can clear the issue without needing a sexual partner. Sometimes just understanding this article deeply enough will resolve it.

· Forgiveness work. This can involve prayer, meditation of the right kind, and other types of self-analysis and insight therapy.

· All deep healing will help this problem. For example, nutritional balancing science will bring up this issue for some men and women. Other helpful methods may include chiropractic, body work such as Rolfing, therapeutic massage, or perhaps some forms of energetic healing such as homeopathy, herbal medicine or other methods.

OTHER ASPECTS OF THIS ISSUE

Just a woman’s issue. Some would say that one of women’s issues is to heal this fear of men and of the rod. Thus, women should just relax, realize they harbor these fears, and think about them in creative ways, if possible, in order to let them go in a safe and reasonable way. This, one might say, is one of the joys and challenges of being a woman.

Women’s reflection. While this is not talked about much, woman’s dilemma may be due to something she has done or harbored in her past that is coming back to her to be examined. This idea is expressed in the Christian bible, for example, as follows: ‘For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. - Matthew 7:2.

So what is a woman to do? It is quite simple, once again. Just live with and observe her fears without becoming too upset or angry about them. Then realize that as she forgives men, so too, will she be forgiven and feel forgiven at very deep levels.

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