ELEMENTS OF MOTIVATION
by Lawrence Wilson, MD
©
January 2011, The Center For Development
As one tries to become well and
maintain excellent health, motivation - and how to increase it - becomes a very
important topic. This article
discusses human motivation in a very simple way that may help many people to
identify problem areas and improve them.
Human motivation is a complex
phenomenon. A way to simplify it
is to break it down into four components or aspects. These are:
1. OneÕs
direction. This
is a combination of oneÕs physical drive, and mental ability to set a goal and
stay with it.
2. OneÕs drive or
speed. This is
partly a function of oneÕs physical energy, and partially a mental quality.
3. OneÕs mood or
outlook. This
is an emotional quality.
4. OneÕs faith or
mental reaching ability. This
is a mental and spiritual quality of people.
Together these determine a
personÕs commitment to the healing program. I liken these aspects to how one controls an aircraft or
other machine of that nature. The
direction corresponds to the course that one has mapped out. The drive is like the speed control or
throttle on the car or plane. The
mood is like the way the aircraft responds to the controls. Finally, the mental reach or faith
aspect is something like how well the machine can stay on course, even though
the route is not always clear. For
example, an airplane with a radar system to control it stays exactly on course
all the time if the system works well.
A car, by contrast, has to be corrected all the time with the steering
system because it has little mental reach or directional control.
Let us examine the four aspects
in more detail.
THE FOUR ELEMENTS
OF MOTIVATION
1. OneÕs direction
or vector. For
this element, think of the joystick of an aircraft or the steering wheel of an
automobile. One must choose a
direction or goal toward which one moves.
This is important for motivation because if the direction is incorrect,
it will affect the motion of the vehicle in serious ways.
For example, if your goal is to
get a lot of drama or attention for your condition, you may resist getting
well. This is discussed
below. If your goal is just to
save money, you may not be willing to spend what it takes to get well. If your goal is to just breeze along and
not make an effort, you may not get well.
OneÕs goal or what you are moving toward are extremely important to
review often. The best goal is to
say to yourself ÒI will do whatever it takes to get wellÓ. That is like setting the course on the
airplane autopilot and just leaving it alone, without tampering with the
goal. If it means Òflying through
the stormÓ, then so be it. If it
means a long flight, then so be it.
If it means losing a friend or two, or opposing your parents, then so be
it. That is what I mean by a great
goal or direction.
2. OneÕs drive or
velocity of motion. Some people like to travel fast. They will have more motivation,
generally, than those who prefer to just travel slowly to their destination. This is an important factor in
motivation for many people.
OneÕs speed depends upon oneÕs
temperament, but also on oneÕs health status, of course, energy level, and
perhaps other factors such as the fear factor. Some travel slowly simply out of caution. Others prefer to travel slowly to
Òenjoy the viewÓ. All these
factors can affect oneÕs speed of motion.
In terms of the analogy with an
aircraft or car, the speed of motion corresponds with the setting of the
throttle control or how hard one is pushing the gas pedal.
The best speed is gentle and
steady. This is important. Those who want it all right now usually
Òburn outÓ. One must be patient in
order to get to the destination safely and without too much stress. So try to measure your speed control
and set it for a comfortable and safe journey.
3. OneÕs mood. This factor in motivation may be somewhat vague, but very
important in some cases. Some
people are more positive-thinking, forward-thinking or just ÒupÓ in their mood. They are often more joyful, happier,
lighter and so on. They tend to
move faster for a number of reasons.
One is they are less affected by
Òbumps in the road of lifeÓ. They
are also less affected by the fear-mongering and negativity of other people, or
by words and stories they encounter while reading websites, and so on. Even their own fears and bodily aches
and pains slow them down less.
On the other hand, those with a
lower mood tend to get depressed or tired, and are usually more fearful, more
anxious and tend to move forward much slower. This is fine, but it is an important factor in some people.
The best mood is one of the warrior or the pioneer. The warrior
just keeps in mind the mission or goal.
His or her motto might be ÒDamn the torpedos. Full speed aheadÓ. But do it gently so you donÕt burn out,
as explained above.
Successful people always have a
decent mood, because a depressed attitude or a very fearful or hesitant mood
will tend to ruin any project, including healing.
4. Mental reach or
expectation. Some people have more faith in themselves,
in the future, and in life, in general.
They tend to move ahead fast.
Others are very doubtful.
This is not the same as a low
mood. It is more of an
intellectual problem. They
hesitate, are over-cautious, and have little or no faith. One can say they have a much lower
expectations of success. They
often move much slower in everything.
This is a critical factor today with most people.
The best mental reach or faith
idea is to have total faith in the nutritional balancing program. This is not easy for some, but others
manage it very well. They simply
do the program without much questioning or much doubting at all. If someone questions their faith, they respond
that this is the right program for them, and that is all. This is wonderful attitude that
generally move people ahead mentally and physically very quickly.
HOW TO USE THIS
SYSTEM OF UNDERSTANDING MOTIVATION
The way to use this system of
four aspects of motivation is to examine yourself often. Ask which, if any of the four aspects
of motivation, is an area in which you are weak. Then correct that area, and in most cases your motivation
and your pace of healing will improve, often dramatically. Here are some examples of problems and
solutions for each of the four aspects of motivation discussed above.
1. An improper or
vague direction. You may notice that your goal or
direction is unsure, or even incorrect.
For example, some people are not really interested in becoming well. They like the drama and perhaps the
attention they get from others by being ill. In some cases, they donÕt really want to work and they can
be on disability or welfare as long as they are ill. These are cases of an improper or perhaps just a vague goal
or direction.
If you goal is to get attention,
then you might fake illness or work less hard to be well in order to keep
getting attention. If you have a
lawsuit pending regarding a job that caused your illness, you may not want to
get well that fast until the lawsuit is settled. These examples of improper direction can greatly reduce your
motivation and slow your progress toward healing.
Another improper direction is to
Òshow someone what you can doÓ. It
might be your husband or wife, or your doctor, or others. This is not a good motivation. Your healing is very private and it is
not wise to try to Òlet the world knowÓ about it. Later, if you get well, you can write up your story. But donÕt do this at first, as it is a
trap for many people that distracts you from the actual work of getting well at
all levels. It is too
anger-motivated or fear-motivated for safety.
Another wrong direction is when
you will only do the program if your friend or perhaps your wife or husband
does the program. Once again,
healing is about yourself, mainly.
It is not about anyone else and their decisions about their lives.
Another improper goal or
direction is to impress anyone, or to make money selling or teaching or even
learning the program. Focus on
doing the program, instead. You
donÕt need to become an intellectual and read about it endlessly. Rest is more important. Review the section above about this
many times until you are clear on your direction to get well at any cost.
2. Low drive or
speed. Some people just cannot seem to get
going on their healing program. If
this is you, think of how to help yourself Òstep on the gasÓ or to Òput your
program in high gearÓ. A common
reason why some people move slowly with their program, for example, is just a
very low energy level. If this is
the case, then perhaps you must budget your energy and save your energy for the
nutrition program, rather than spend it elsewhere. Maybe you just need to sleep and rest more.
Another reason some peopleÕs
speed is low is you are forgetful or distracted. Therefore, you might not always remember to take your
supplements and eat the right foods, or you forget to go to bed early enough so
you are exhausted the next day. If
this is you, then you must set up a rigid schedule to do what needs to be
done. Perhaps you need to set up
alarms on your cell phone to remind you to eat, to take your supplements, and
to go to bed by 9 PM. These are
simple things, but they can make all the difference in the world as to how well
you follow your program.
Another reason for sluggishness
in motion is that you donÕt really want to get well. So check this in yourself. Another reason for slowness is someone in your life who is
opposing you. It can be your
dearest friend, your dear brother or mother, or some other supposedly
well-meaning person. If that is case,
you must let the person go and decide you will not speak about the program with
him or her, and maybe you will let go of the friendship if it is slowing you
down. Even your children can slow
you down if they say certain things and doubt what you are doing.
Another thing that slows down
many people is working too hard.
It is much better to have a lower-paying, easier job for a while until
you heal yourself. Later, when you
are well, you can work more, but now you need your rest, your regular meals, and
the other parts of the program.
Some people are slowed by an
erratic and difficult schedule.
Once again, you must change that if you wish to move faster. You need to be able to sit and eat
quietly, take naps, if possible, and do the rest of the program. Remember, the ideal pace is gentle and
steady.
3. A low
mood. If you find that you are ÒdownÓ
and depressed, and donÕt want to bother with the program because your mood is
down, perhaps you need to talk with others who have succeeded, or stop listening
to the naysayers in your family, among friends, on the internet or elsewhere
who are pulling down your mood by telling you that the program is nonsense and
it will not work.
The negative words or actions of
others, or just their fearful thoughts, are powerful reasons why some become
discouraged when they are really doing quite well. Often it is best not to even mention your nutritional
balancing program to doctors, friends and family for this reason. Instead, decide you will give it your
all, you will be a pioneer, and you will not listen or respond to those who are
doubters, especially when most of them donÕt have any idea what it is really
about.
Instead of talking or listening
to them, listen to Dr. WilsonÕs CDs, for example, or read this website or his
books so you will become more excited about the program as you read about
successful cases.
Remember the ideal mood or
emotional approach is that of being a pioneer and a warrior. For more on this, read The WarriorÕs Creed on this website.
4. Lack of faith,
or a low level of mental understanding and reaching into the future. This is related to the problem above, but is somewhat
different. Many people who are ill
are so hopeless that they cannot even imagine they could actually feel
wonderful. This is very
common. Perhaps you have been to
many doctors and tried many vitamin programs or diets. Others have read books or the internet
and decided that their case is hopeless because it says so on the internet or
the doctors say so.
This is what is called a lack of
faith or lack of mental understanding or reach. In this case, it is imperative that you speak with others
who have succeeded with this program.
Listen to their stories and decide you will be like them. Learn more about the program and how it
works, because the more you understand the principles of balancing the body and
avoiding remedies, drugs and hormones, for example, the more you will
appreciate what you are doing.
Be sure to read about retracing
and healing reactions, too. This
way you will be prepared for them and wonÕt lose faith when they suddenly
occur.
Other reasons for a lack of
faith is the presence of others in your life who oppose what you are doing, or
who themselves lack faith. Usually
this is because they have not read much about the program, and have not
experienced its benefits for themselves.
So once again, you may have to separate yourself from them, or at least
do not let them Òsteal your faith and your joyÓ regarding this journey.
Another cause of lack of faith
or mental reach is lack of accurate knowledge. Be sure not to fall into this trap. Often, Dr. Wilson must correct the
misinformation that other give out regarding coffee enemas, saunas, nutritional
supplements, diets, spring water in plastic bottles, and so on. Keep reading this website or ask
questions, but do not let doubts and wrong information fester in your brain,
lest it take away your faith altogether in something that is quite amazing.
Hopelessness has been discussed
above. It is a real faith killer,
along with fear and doubt. Watch
out for this trio of faith killers and donÕt let them take root. If they do, talk to your practitioner
about what to do to root them out and send them packing. This can take a lot of effort in some
cases, but it is well worth the effort you will expend. It is one of the most common errors I
find with patients, and I suffered from it myself so I understand it.
The media can also sap your
faith with their Òvitamin horror storiesÓ that are often fake or
exaggerated. The drug ads can make
you believe that you really need a drug, not all this emphasis on food and
lifestyle. The TV Òmedical
expertsÓ are often wrong – totally wrong. So be careful about faith-killing media ads and
personalities. Learn to turn it
off and stop subscribing to the email letters, newsletters and more that sow
the seeds of doubt and faithlessness.
CONCLUSION
This simple system of evaluating
four aspects of motivation can go a long way to assisting anyone to make much faster
progress on the journey of life, love and healing. Please read this article carefully, many times, to
appreciate all that it has to offer.
Wishing you a safe, fast and happy journey -
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