by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
© October 2021, LD Wilson Consultants, Inc.
Kissing can be wonderful. However, we are living in an unusual time, so here are two warnings about kissing:
Warning #1. If someone ever tries to kiss you and puts a capsule or pill in your mouth, immediately spit it out, even if the pill has broken open. The pill or capsule is usually a tranquilizer drug! You will be asleep in a few minutes and usually raped or beaten soon after.
Warning #2: These days, kissing is dangerous. It can easily transmit sexual diseases – even just touching the lips.
These diseases quickly travel throughout the body, especially to the brain, and are not easy to undo. The Development Program will heal them, but it may take years.
Deep kissing or “nibbling” (really biting) is worse and transmits diseases even faster. Never let anyone do this to you.
For these reasons, we say – AVOID KISSING UNLESS IT IS YOUR COMMITTED HUSBAND OR WIFE.
A Simple Definition
Sixth Energy Center Sharing
Kissing Can Help Undo Traumas
Famous Kisses - Beauty And The Beast
The Bible Story of Judas
The Power Of The Kiss
Jasmine and Rhododendren
A simple definition of a kiss is to bring together gently, or to touch lovingly, caressingly, and affectionately. This definition is not about human kissing only, but can mean two objects that are touching each other lightly, for example.
Kissing among people, however, should be gentle and loving – not the act on television where the man grabs the lady’s face and shoves his face into hers, smashing their teeth and tongues together.
This is the Hollywood version only, and not correct at all. It should be gentle, sweet and light, not rough or forced in any way.
The Hollywood version also has the man and woman voraciously sucking each other’s mouths. This, too, we do not think is correct, based on the definition above. Kissing does not need to cause an exchange of saliva beyond a little bit, and is definitely not an eating contest! I hope this will put at ease some people who are not sure they can duplicate the Hollywood version of kissing!
KISSING IS SIXTH ENERGY CENTER SHARING
Another definition is that kissing is the joining of two people in a particular energetic way that shows affection and caring. We like this definition very much. It is simple, and yet explains kissing quite well.
It can occur between any two people. However, at the risk of offending some, we suggest that it is best between a man and a woman. This is because the energetic connection between them is clearest. However, it is okay between any two people.
A fifth, sixth and seventh energy center connection. Kissing joins two at the face, which is the location of the sixth energy center. The mouth is also close to the fifth energy center in the throat.
Subtle energy moves downward from the sixth center to the mouth.
The sixth energy center has to do with a higher type of love than the centers located lower on the body. This center has to do with knowledge and wisdom. This is important to understand the real meaning of kissing.
Kissing does not seem as intimate as having sex, perhaps, but it can mean just as much, if not more! Perhaps you have had the experience of wanting to just kiss someone. It is not sexual, exactly, and it is affectionate or appreciative. This is kissing, too – a way of saying thank you and I care about you.
This website emphasizes activities that move energy downward through the body from the head to the feet. This direction of flow will drastically improve your health and cause development. We call these “down” activities.
Down kissing is when one intentionally moves energy downward from the head to the feet during a kiss. This is a wonderful and very healing addition to any kiss! It will also speed up development, the goal of the development programs we set up.
It is an example of Empathic Blending. This means it is a healing method that involves more than one person.
HOW TO DOWN KISS
1. When you kiss, put your attention below your feet and then pull energy downward from your head to your feet. The other person will feel the energy moving downward and this helps both of you with healing and development.
If the other person does the same, you will feel it and this will also help your health and development.
2. You can intentionally move energy from the other person’s head toward their feet. To do this, put your attention below the other person’s feet. Then pull downward.
Never pull energy upward into your mouth. Always pull it downward from the other person’s head to his or her feet.
If you do this with enough force, the one you are kissing will feel it. In all instances, it is most helpful for one’s health.
The longer the duration of a down kiss, the more healing will take place.
To understand why down activities are so beneficial, read Downward Moving Energy and Healing.
I would like to suggest a way to kiss. Interestingly, it is often a woman who will initiate a kiss, although this is not shown often on television and the movies.
It is the ladies who, when full of light and health, have an outward-moving sixth energy center. This means they enjoy extending their energy field at this level of the body.
Men, in contrast, have an inwardly-moving sixth energy center, so kissing is not quite as exciting or attractive for them, at least it did not used to be. Today, many men have this energy center closed or it moves outward, so they may become more “kissy” than in the past.
Beware of “kissy” men, by the way. It is usually an attempt to be sexy and to upset a woman sexually, or even another man. Usually, the “kissy” types of men and women have many diseases of the lips and mouth, and you will get them if you are not careful and say “no kissing, sir” or “no kissing, madame”.
Back to how to kiss: To kiss, the person initiating brings the lips up close to the other person’s cheek or lips, and just gently touches them together. One may bite just a little and gently, although this is not needed or helpful.
If it is a kiss on the mouth, she or he may just open the other person’s mouth a little bit and exchange a little saliva. Then the initiating person may withdraw unless it is to be a long kiss.
Once again, kissing should be a gentle and sweet expression of appreciation and love.
1. Girls and women must be careful with all kissing. It can be very pleasurable. However, girls and women can easily have orgasms and go out of control just from hard kissing. In contrast, men do not go out of control when kissing.
Men who are sexual predators know this, but most young women do not understand it. Predators will start kissing a woman gently. Then he does it more intensely and soon she is all heated up and out of control.
He will then tell her it means she is in love and she needs to have sex with him. This is not true! It is just a response of the body. So women need to know when to stop kissing.
2. Kissing spreads disease today. Many people have diseases on the lips and in the mouth. Don’t let strangers kiss you and don’t go around kissing everyone.
We suggest limiting kissing to your marriage partner or committed relationship only.
3. Be careful kissing children. Kissing children a lot can condition them to want kisses as adults and this can definitely get women in trouble on dates.
4. We do not recommend kissing pets. They can all carry diseases that can be transmitted through kissing.
5. The problem of boredom with kissing. Down kissing is marvelous for couples. However, it can become boring or routine.
To avoid this, be creative with your kissing. Do it in different places, in different positions, wearing different clothing, while playing different music, and while thinking different thoughts.
You can also add hugs, holding meridian points on the other person’s body, and massage.
Kissing is very important to some women. Sexual predators know this and deliberately use kissing to seduce and otherwise harm women.
For example, during some rapes, a woman is kissed roughly and harshly. This may go on for fifteen minutes or longer. It can cause quite intense trauma.
To undo this trauma, a woman usually requires kisses from a man. Two ways to help undo the trauma are:
Gentle kissing. Loving and sweet kisses will help a woman to have positive feelings regarding kissing and regarding men, and to let go of traumas involving rough kissing.
Psychodrama kissing. This is a very powerful psychological and physical healing methods. It consists of imitating, to a degree, a traumatic experience.
This allows a person to review and process the trauma in a non-threatening manner. When done properly, it can be extremely powerful and effective to undo traumas!
The key elements of psychodrama are:
- Carefully plan the kiss so there are no surprises.
- Include as many details of the scene as possible, including dressing up the man to look like the rapist, setting up the scene to be similar to the trauma setting, wearing similar clothing, similar lighting, and more.
- Very important, however, is to keep the mood happy and upbeat at all times. If things get too serious, stop and start over.
- At first, act out the kiss very slowly and gently. If the woman can handle this, then repeat it with more intensity.
- There needs to be a sign such as saying “stop” if the scene becomes too uncomfortable. Otherwise, more trauma can occur from re-enacting the scene. If she says ‘stop’, the person helping to re-enact the scene must stop at once. A man or a woman could play the role of the predator.
- Talk about what occurred after running the scene. A number of repetitions are always needed. Eventually, the emotional charge of the event dissipates and the trauma goes away or lessens.
- If you want to try this, be sure to first read Psychodrama so you do it correctly and safely.
Kissing can satisfy various needs of the souls. This is a large subject that we will expand in the future.
Kissing is an expression of love that can be far superior to sex, talking, gifts, and most other expressions of love. We will expand upon this idea in the future.
FAMOUS KISSES - BEAUTY AND THE BEAST
A famous story about a kiss is the story of Beauty And The Beast. While it is just a fairy tale, it tells a story of a princess who must “wake up” a man who had been turned into an ugly beast by a curse. At first, she is scared of the beast, and quite repelled.
However, in the story they are thrown together and she eventually realizes he is not a bad person. One day, as he lies sick and dying, she gets up the courage to give him a kiss, and lo, he transforms into a handsome prince. There is deeper meaning to this story, even if it is fictional, which it is not.
The story describes the spiritual journey of many young women who are looking for their “knight in shining armor”. Many young women do not want to have to work to get a man. They often wait lazily at the castle gate for him to come along and “save them” from their loneliness and depression.
Today, a number of them will even take their clothes off and have sex just to meet the right man, although that is not recommended, at all.
In contrast, the story shows that sometimes your man is right near you, but he is not too attractive, and may be downright strange, nerdy, beast-like or just a “funky guy” in whom you have little interest. He is not much to look at, or to smell, perhaps, and he may not be big and strong enough to defend you, or so it seems.
In the fairy tale story, the maiden is definitely not attracted to the beast visually. However, she ends up spending time around him. After a while, she actually comes to love the beast, and that is the moral of the story.
This is the hard part for most young women. Will she give a man a chance and get to know him a little, even if he is not attractive to her? It is the most difficult challenge for many young women looking for a husband. Usually, it requires either a situation in which the lady is ‘forced’ somehow to spend time with the less attractive man, or she must overcome her own reticence and repulsion and give the less attractive man a chance this way.
Later in the fairy tale, it is the maiden’s love, symbolized by bending over and giving him a kiss, that breaks the curse upon the man, and he magically changes into a much more attractive being. Here again is a moral to the story. The moral may be expressed that, at times, a woman or perhaps love, has more power to transform a less attractive man than one may think.
Ladies, it is not just a story. It is immortalized as a fairy tale because it is a woman’s journey. Too often, the men who seem so handsome and mighty are empty inside, or don’t really love you. Many just want sex or someone to wash the clothes and raise the children. Some are just sexual predators with nice bodies.
Meanwhile, the nerdy ones are the good ones, but you are not attracted to them because they are not sexy, even if they are physically decent-looking. So how does a woman tell who is who, and whom to marry? This is the stuff of many movies and novels, of course.
The answer is that a wise woman extends herself gently to the less attractive men as well as the nice-looking ones. You may say, “Well, that was for her, not for me.” Not true.
It is for all women, and for men as well, in some instances. However, it is often hardest for a woman, especially if she is attractive and has many suitors knocking at her door.
Also, the story is not just about finding a man. It can be about the school you attend, your clothing, your home, your car, perhaps, and maybe much more. The same theme applies. Be careful of what looks sexy and draws your attention, and “turns you on”, so to speak. Often it is not best for you.
Often, it just tickles your ego mind, and does not bring you lasting happiness and joy. Do not throw away the plain and simple men in your life, the plain and simple house, car, clothing, education, and so much more. Instead, extend yourself through your sixth energy center, which is about real love and warmth of the woman, and you may be surprised what happens.
Why the kiss in the story? Because the kiss represents extending through the sixth energy center in a gentle and non-sexual way. It is a woman’s way of opening herself to others that is not very sexual, and is non-threatening and loving at a high level. This is the significance of the kiss in this story.
And remember, the story can apply to men as well. If possible, learn to extend yourself through the sixth energy center. Do not judge by appearances, or who is wealthier, more suave, famous, or beautiful.
Open yourself to that which may seem a little dull, boring, unusual, smelly, or even ugly to you. Perhaps you have misjudged them by your superficial attitude. This is a lesson I have learned a few times, as it is easy to forget.
THE KISS OF THE BETRAYER IN THE BIBLE
Another famous kiss is that of Judas, the man who betrayed Jesus of Nazareth in the Bible. The betrayer identified the Master to the authorities by giving him a kiss, which was the “kiss of death”, so to speak.
Here the kiss is also seemingly an act of love, but it is phony to the core. Here, too, is a lesson for both men and women. Beware of the “kiss of death”, or the phony love of some people.
It is sad to have to say that kissing can be abused, but it can be misleading and wrong. Kissing can feel good, but it can be faked, put on, and, in fact, can be used to harm you. So always beware and do not be misled that because another kissed you, it has much meaning.
Teenage boys know this trick well. You must kiss the girl, even if you hate kissing and kisses. She will hopefully think you are in love with her and she might take her clothes off on the next date. And so it goes, with men deceiving women, and women deceiving men to get what they want.
Both of these stories illustrate the power of the kiss, and that is the point. Kissing is wonderful between male and female committed partners. Be careful when it is between anyone else, however, as it can be misused very easily, and this occurs all the time.
I do not want to sully it too much, however. Sometimes it is very genuine and loving, and done without ulterior motive, either by a man or a woman.
IV. JASMINE, THE KISSING PLANT
A little known fact is that the plant called jasmine is also called the “kissing plant”. This has to do with its nutritional and herbal content. However, it can open a person to romance, a little, and this is the meaning of its nickname as the kissing plant.
If you wish to meet someone for romantic purposes, try having some jasmine tea daily, or sprinkle some dried jasmine on your food each day. It sometimes works, and it won’t hurt.
Jasmine is called the kissing tea because it works on the sixth energy center. It does not work on the sexual organs, for example. Nor does it work on the heart area or fourth energy center. It works on the sixth center.
Please remember this next time you are looking for that special person to marry. What you are looking for is a sixth center connection, and not the others. The others will last for a day or a month or a year. The sixth energy connection will last a lifetime, and longer.
The rhododendron. This is another plant that is sometimes called “the kissing plant”. This plant, too, works on the sixth energy center of a human being or an animal.
Some know about this and we use it when we need to bring two people together. This is one reason why people like this plant in their yard.