WOMEN’S SAFETY DISGUISES
by Dr. Wilson and friends
© January 2020, LD Wilson Consultants, Inc.
All information in this article is for educational purposes only. It is not for the diagnosis, treatment, prescription or cure of any disease or health condition.
This article will seem funny, outrageous or even offensive to some people. It will seem like it is telling women they must be unattractive or even invisible, something most women dislike more than anything in this world. It may seem like it is “blaming the victim”, instead of liberating and empowering women.
However, that is not the intent. This article is intended to wake up young women to the danger they face from male sexual predators, mainly. It is also a dose of reality being passed on to you from a few who are older and wiser. So if you find this article offensive or weird, it is probably because you are not aware of the dangers young women face.
You see, most rapes are never reported, and those that are reported to the police are often kept very quiet by the family and/or close friends of the one who experienced the rape.
The reasons for this are shame, guilt, disbelief and threats from the rapist to kill the young lady if she tells anyone anything about what really happened. Very sadly, this is the reality on earth at this time.
In addition, proving rape can be difficult, dangerous and horribly humiliating. Even if proven, the jail sentence for it is so light it is ridiculous – a few years in prison, at the most. Recently, the TV news reported that a rapist was sentenced to just one month in prison! As a result, the hidden crime wave or rape epidemic around the world goes on.
Sending mixed signals. Most young women do not realize that the way they dress, walk, and carry themselves always sends powerful signals to everyone around them. This is biology, and nothing more.
While it is fun to turn the boys’ heads and excite their bodies, attracting male attention is always dangerous for young women. This is just fact. Even if you are not showing off, and not “advertising” or turning heads, giving mixed signals is very easy to do, and some do not realize this until it is too late.
The purpose of this article is simply to save your dignity, your honor, and maybe your life. That is its only intent.
The only relevant question is how can a young woman feel safer if she wishes to walk the streets alone, attend classes, go shopping, work in offices, and do everything else. That is the subject of this unusual article.
The quick answer is that, while it is less fun, if you are under age 40 or so, look like a “plain Jane” – and maybe look a little odd - if you want to stay safe.
Give up the game of turning men’s heads. It is quite immature and actually nasty. Decide you are done with it!
Definitely do not emulate the TV or movie stars, or the female news reporters, a few of whom tell us they follow the exact advice on this article when they leave the TV studio. Do not be deceived by the fashion world. Instead, be safe. Here are specifics:
1. Sew together two small rounded pillows and add a strap with a buckle that closes in front. When you go out, put this on over your underpants and under a pair of pants so it looks like you have a big butt. Rapists don’t seem to like it.
2. Wear somewhat baggy and heavy dark-colored pants over the two pillows. Light could shine through light-colored pants, revealing your thin legs.
This outfit will be hot if you are in a warm climate, but it is worth it.
3. De-emphasize your breasts as much as you can. Flat-chested is much better.
4. Put gray rouge on your face before going out. If you have very fair skin, put some on the backs of your hands, as well. Rapists don’t seem to like the gray color. Other colors don’t work as well.
5. Keep your hair short. This is much less sexy. Short hair also speeds up development – a great advantage. Consider buying a cheap gray wig to wear around town. You could “powder your hair” with gray rouge, but this is messy.
THE REST OF YOUR OUTFIT
Shoes: No high heels, not even slightly high. Many attractive women that think they need to stick their butt in everyone’s face by wearing heels.
Also, do not wear flip-flops or even sandals. Simple running shoes are often best. You never know when you will need to run.
Blouses and tops: Baggy and shapeless tend to be best. No low-cut tops, and no sleeveless tops, even in the summer. Also, skip all tight clothing, and skip anything even remotely see-through or mesh.
A bra is fine as long as it does not push up the breasts and make them look bigger. The smaller they look, the better. Large-breasted women will have more problems, but still, look for a bra that makes the breasts look smaller.
Bottoms, slacks and dresses. Skip all short skirts and ALL shorts. Also, skip all tight bottoms and leggings, and skip blue jeans that emphasize your figure.
Colors: With all clothing, avoid pinks, reds and oranges. Keep the colors and patterns more simple and sedate. Light colors are better, but not if they are see-through.
Materials: Stay away from anything sheer, sexy, see-through, mesh, or tight. Try to have fun with it, recognizing that the male ego is completely and unconsciously drawn to attractive bodies and it has nothing to do with you. But if you look the part, they will come around and it is a type of attention fraught with danger.
Bathing suits: One-piece, non-sexy bathing suits that cover up your thighs and cover up on top are best. Beaches are dangerous places where women are often spotted for rape. We would avoid them all unless they are very private. We know this is difficult in some areas.
Everyone should stay out of swimming pools and hot tubs for cleanliness reasons. If you must go swimming, bring a man with you.
Eyeglasses: Consider wearing strange-looking eyeglasses. They can be either clear lenses or corrective lenses. These are available online at Halloween stores and party outlets. Thick, dark-colored plastic frames are often best. Definitely avoid sexy or cute eyeglasses.
Also, do not wear sunglasses. You can have a pair of sunglasses in the car for long-distance driving, but usually they are not needed. They are more sexy and they block light from entering the eyes, which is not healthful for daily constant use.
Makeup. Less makeup is better. Plain is best. Some people suggest disguises based on wearing odd or ugly makeup, but others say this does not work well, and can cause problems if you look strange.
Perfumes and cologne: Skip most of them. Definitely avoid strong-smelling lotions, deodorants, soaps and colognes that are designed to attract male attention. No-smell body care products are usually much healthier, as well, because they contain fewer toxic ingredients.
If you want to be even more safe in close situations, especially if you feel threatened, try the following trick. Find someone that has a dog and collect some dog urine. Spray a little on yourself before going to that meeting or class.
It is quite unattractive to men. However, it will not help you while you are walking down the street, for example, so it is not enough by itself to keep you safe.
TRAVEL, AND MORE
Travel. Unfortunately, all travel is dangerous for young women! Many women report that restaurants, hotels and even gas stations attract sexual predators. The less travel the better. We don’t know any way around these problems, although traveling with a man you trust is probably best, and ideally share a hotel room with him rather than be alone. Traveling with other women is not much better than traveling alone.
If you will be traveling, let at least one friend know your itinerary and check in frequently by phone.
Posture: Do not stick out your chest or your butt, which many women do unconsciously. This is not a good idea. Also, walk without swinging your hips. This can be practiced if you notice you do this, or if friends tell you do this.
Also, when sitting, keep your legs closed or crossed. Friends can often help with this makeover, by the way, if they are true friends and can have fun with it. See who can look more homely among your friends.
Your overall image: Look and feel rather comfortable, plain, old fashioned, maybe retro, unconcerned with fashion, and not advertising. Dressing sloppily is not good, and neither is dirty clothing. These make you look like a tramp, which is not the proper image.
ATTRACTING HUSBANDS WITH YOUR DISGUISES
You might be surprised who pays attention to you when you are not “dressed to kill”. High-quality men often do not like women who “advertise” and show off. You can also leave the disguises at home when you go to mixers or certain social events. Be careful, however, as the predators may be in attendance, as well.
You want a man who is not after you just for sex reasons. So “testing” them by looking non-sexy is by far the best approach. Instead, impress them with your brain, a part of you that is far more important than any other body part.
To conclude, enjoy your disguises. Know that you are God’s child, no matter what you wear, say or do. You are brilliant and don’t need the trappings that some think are so important. Safety is much better than popularity. Don’t take chances - one incident can ruin a life. Have fun as you dress for safety.