THE HEALING PATH
By Lawrence Wilson, MD
© Revised, June 2008, The Center for
Development
There
is much confusion today over what is real, deep healing. Many people confuse symptom removal
with healing, for example. This article
will distinguish these two, with an emphasis on understanding real healing and
real healing sciences, as opposed to sciences that mainly remove symptoms.
WHAT
IS REAL, DEEP HEALING?
Hear are some qualities of real healing:
1. Healing is much more than eliminating
symptoms.
2. It is a path that can be embraced - a path toward
wholeness and oneness.
3. It is essentially a reversal of the process
involved in becoming ill or imbalanced in some way at some level.
4. At the same time, it is an awakening to
one's true nature and the deeper meaning of life.
5.
It rarely leaves a trace or adverse effect on the body.
6.
It tends to be permanent, or far moreso than symptom removal.
7.
It takes more work and time than just symptom removal in most cases, though
certainly not all of them. Sometimes just rest is
needed, for example, instead of so much running around.
8.
Often involves so-called purification or healing reactions.
9.
It involves replacing less preferred minerals and other nutrients with more
preferred ones.
10.
It is often far more subtle and may require effort on many levels of oneÕs
being than mere symptom removal.
11. It goes beyond healing and is preventive
of future problems as well.
Let
us examine these in more detail.
1.
MORE THAN SYMPTOM REMOVAL
healing
is a much deeper process than just symptom removal. To remove a symptom, for example, it can be suppressed, or
moved to a different part of the body, such as shifting the weight so that a
back pain becomes a knee pain. This happens all the time, by the way.
Healing
is not just about shifting the symptom picture. It is about actual removal and reversal of the cause at any
of several deeper levels.
2.
A PATH TO EMBRACE
Healing
is far more about lifestyle, diet, rest, sleep, the company one keeps, even the
job one does and how one views the world.
It is more about a path, in this sense, through life that one either
embraces or not. This is very
different from symptom removal, which requires much less time, effort and
commitment in most cases.
For
example, symptom removal of a wart usually just means a visit to a skin
doctor. To remove the cause,
however, might mean not walking barefoot in a locker room any more forever. This is a trivial example, but a good
illustration of a lifestyle change versus just a doctor visit.
A
far more critical example is how diabetes is ÒtreatedÓ. Symptom removal, only partially
effective, would be to take an oral anti-diabetic medication or insulin and
make minor dietary adjustments.
Deep healing is to make major dietary changes,
start exercising, lose 100 pounds or more if needed and alter the behaviors,
attitudes and all aspects of lifestyle that gave rise to the diabetic
condition. It would also involve
taking herbs and nutrient supplements to rebuild the pancreas and other organs
of the diseased body that would entail extra time, cost and effort.
3.
HEALING IS RETRACING
Healing is a reversal process, first and
foremost. This is sometimes called
by different names. The most
common name is the retracing process. Healing is retracing or returning to
oneÕs old healthful patterns of existence after something has harmed
oneself.
Physical harm. The harm could be of a physical nature,
such as a fall, a bullet wound, an invasion by bacteria or other germs, a
broken bone, a cancer or some other insult to the body.
Mental harm. The harm may also be one of a mental
nature. This might be the
acceptance of a false idea as true.
This can be as simple as believing one is ugly or stupid. It could be far more complex, such as
accepting that one is a victim or someone else or something else, and therefore
one is entitled to a benefit from the government, for example. It is anything that is a belief or an
idea that is incorrect.
Emotional harm. This is anything that upsets the mood
or natural balance of the personality.
It could relate to a fear, anger, upset, aggressiveness or other
emotions. Many times we become
frightened as young children and the fear stays with us for years, for
example. Others are made angry or
upset and this trait remains long after the original cause is over with. These are examples of emotional scars
or wounds.
Spiritual harm. The wound can be of a spiritual nature
as well. I want to be very careful
what we call spiritual, as mostly what is called spiritual I would call
mental/emotional. Spiritual, by
this meaning, is anything to do with the union of body and mind with the
dimension of consciousness that is not here on earth.
This may sound confusing. In fact, humans live on many
dimensions. The physical plane is
just one of them. Humans should be
in touch with other planes of existence.
This is the natural state, not something
reserved for wise men, psychics and others. We might say that spiritual wounds are those that separate
the physical self from the divine self.
This is inaccurate and incomplete, but gives the right idea, at
least. Other articles on this
site, for example, Spiritual Development,
discuss spiritual matters in more detail.
4.
HEALING IS AN AWAKENING TO ONEÕS TRUE SELF AND FULL POTENTIAL
This means that much more is possible with deep,
full healing. By learning discipline,
for example, and by resting a lot more, energies can be stirred in the human
body and mind that offer far greater benefits in the long run.
The lazy personÕs approach of symptom removal
only does not and never can offer the same incredible possibilities. This topic is somewhat beyond the scope
of this article. It is discussed
more in the article on this site called Spiritual
Development.
5.
NO ADVERSE UNINTENDED EFFECTS
This is a major difference between deep healing
and symptom removal. Modern
medicine, for example, is well known for the adverse effects of its many
invasive treatments such as drugs, surgery, radiation therapy and more.
Real healing never causes these effects, one of
its many intense benefits. This
means it is far less costly in the long run, often, and offers complete cures,
although they are rarely recognized as such by doctors, who cannot believe that
other methods are better than theirs.
6.
FAR MORE PERMANENT RESULTS
Since deeper causes are addressed and correction
is not a mere shifting of symptoms to other parts of the body or different
symptoms, results tend to be far more permanent and complete.
7.
REQUIRES MORE TIME AND EFFORT IN MANY CASES, THOUGH NOT ALL
This is the case because deep
healing must address many levels of functioning such as diet, lifestyle,
activity level, attitudes and more in some cases. However, this probing is helpful for the person on many
levels, which offsets some of the effort involved.
8.
IT OFTEN INVOLVES PURIFICATION REACTIONS OR FLARE-UPS
Very often during retracing or healing, old
symptoms or even new ones flare up and become worse at times during the healing
process. They are always
temporary, but can be quite startling and unpleasant. They can include anything, from an upset stomach and
headache to diarrhea or a flu or sore throat.
The cause of purification reactions is a
tremendous increase in vitality.
This is the key that must be recalled at all times. It is not a disease crisis, but an
increase in energy that causes the body to throw off poisons or heal in a
vigorous way that gives rise to the healing reaction or crisis, as it is
sometimes called.
However, these flare-ups can be a very confusing
aspect of healing. They cause deep
healing to look more like illness, while symptom removal can look like healing.
This seeming paradox is quite common, in fact,
and stops many people from pursuing healing. So it is important to be forewarned about the possibility of
reactions or flare-ups at any level of healing Ð physical, mental, emotional or
spiritual.
9.
IT INVOLVES REPLACEMENT OF LESS PREFERRED NUTRIENTS WITH MORE PREFERRED ONES
This is a critical concept in
nutritional balancing science. It
is illustrated with the periodic table of the elements. We know that lead, for instance, is
located just below calcium. This
means that lead Òlooks likeÓ calcium in terms of the structure of its atoms. This is why it is just below calcium in
the same column on the table of the elements.
For
this reason, lead easily replaces calcium in certain enzyme binding sites in
the bones and elsewhere. However,
lead is not the Òpreferred mineralÓ for the bones. When too much lead accumulates, the bones are weaker and do
not function as well. The same is
true when lead replaces calcium in the nervous sytem and elsewhere. It leads to violence, for example, and
ADHD in children.
True,
deep healing must reverse this imbalance and replace the less preferred lead with
the more preferred calcium in the bones and elsewhere. Obviously, this is complex process that
takes some time and effort.
Articles on this webiste about nutritional balancing science explain
more about how it is done quite easily when we understand the relationships
between the minerals.
The
concept also applies to many other minerals in our bodies, so the replacement
process is long and complex in practice.
It is accomplished mainly with excellent nutrition and rest and methods
to detoxify the body and enhance its vitality greatly.
10.
IT OFTEN REQUIRES EFFORT ON MANY LEVELS AND IS QUITE SUBTLE AT TIMES
This has been covered in some depth
earlier. However, it is repeated
to a degree to emphasize how subtle and difficult at times real deep healing
can be.
11.
IT GENERALLY GOES BEYOND HEALING AND IS PREVENTIVE OF FUTURE PROBLEMS AS WELL
This is also important for our health care
system, which is now burdened by a system of medical care that is not
preventive and often causes expensive adverse effects such as lawsuits,
unneeded surgeries that cost billions of dollars annually, fraud in the system
and much more.
True healing methods are generally less costly
in the long run and improve health because they are preventive.
For example, healing of cancer tends to improve
and detoxify the entire body. This
means the person is also far less likely to develop any type of cancer in the
future. Also, they are less likely
to get diabetes, heart disease, infections or hundreds of other conditions
thanks to the deep healing of their one condition, cancer. This needs to be read many times by
those who are policy makers in health care.
Now let us now contrast deep healing this with
Western conventional medicine and even most naturopathic and holistic approaches.
WESTERN
MEDICINE IS NOT HEALING IN MOST CASES
True deep healing is, in fact, quite foreign to
our medical system and to our culture, in general. I will therefore use the word ÒmedicineÓ when the intention
and usually the outcome as well is not healing, but symptom removal. This is to distinguish it from real or
deep healing.
Here are characteristics of symptom removal
common in Western medical approaches, including most naturopathic medicine as
well:
1. Retracing reactions or flare-ups do not
occur often, or does so only rarely as a Òside effectÓ, not as the rule. This can be an advantage, as it avoids
fear about these reactions.
However, we know that it also means that
medicineÕs approach is far more superficial and does not raise the bodyÕs internal
vitality nearly as much as does deep healing.
2. Adverse effects or unintended negative
effects often or even always occur.
This is sometimes called iatrogenic illness or doctor-caused
problems. These range from
hospital infections to botched surgery to adverse drug reactions that can be
lethal.
Many times, these are not obvious, even for
years afterwards. For example, a
seemingly safe vaccination may cause a post-vaccinia syndrome years later that
is difficult if not impossible to directly link to the earlier
intervention. For example,
dementia at age 70 might be hard to link to a few micrograms of mercury that were used as a preservative in
the flu shots the person received for years with no apparent side effects.
3. The ÒcureÓ is far less permanent. Because the vitality of the body is not
increased, the treatment or cure is much less likely to hold. This is very common problem in modern
conventional medicine and naturopathy as well using symptomatic herbal or
homeopathic remedies or energy medicine machines, for example.
While the machines and herbs and remedies can
increase vitality a little, it does not last in most cases. therefore, the problem can come back in
a recurrent fashion or it can become chronic. Both these situations are impermanent cures that make more
business for the doctor or naturopath, but are not in the patientÕs best
interest at all.
Interestingly, only licensed physicians can use
the words cure, diagnose and treat.
This is odd, considering that they often do not cure anything, even if
they say they do.
Perhaps if they really did cure disease at the
deepest level, they would not need a legal monopoly on the word cure and treat
and even disease.
4. Full restoration of function does not
occur as often. For example, after
surgery, scar tissue usually remains, function is not quite perfect and so
forth. Similarly, with drug or
herbal therapy, often one must continue the remedy forever of symptoms come
back.
Antibiotics often do not kill all the bacteria
and a few resistant organisms may remain to cause problems later. These are but a few of the incomplete
correction of the problem that are common in conventional medicine and modern
naturopathy.
5. Prevention does not occur. This goes back to the basic principle that
symptom removal methods generally do not increase vitality significantly. Therefore, they are not preventive of
future illness which is based on low energy, toxic accumulations in the body,
nutrient deficiencies and so forth.
6. Spiritual development of the person
usually does not occur nearly as much.
This
is undoubtedly true, as witnessed by the attitude of most patients in doctorÕs
offices. They only want a fast
ÒcureÓ and do not want to be bothered with more. Only a different attitude on the part of all parties will
change this, I am afraid.
There is so much more to life than treating
symptoms. However, doctors must be
able to explain this to their patients in a practical and convincing way. Only then will patients see that
changing their diets, lifestyles, attitudes and even more in some cases is
worth all the effort.
7. Instead of integration and true healing,
symptom removal often leads to fragmentation and much worse overall health on
many levels.
Indeed, Western medical science has pursued a
path of fragmentation, separating mind from body, thought from emotion, and
organ from organ. This has
produced many marvelous technologies for symptom removal.
However, not only does it not produce healing in
most cases. it fragments the human
anatomy and understanding even of the mind. One is either anxious or bipolar or depressed, but a
combination is hard to imagine for the medically trained doctor.
EXAMPLES
OF TRUE, DEEP HEALING ON THE PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL PLANES
PHYSICAL
HEALING
Physical
healing is most familiar to us. It
means the complete repair and regeneration of the physical organism. While is sounds simple, it is often not
as easy as just resting when one is sick or taking a pill or two.
Physical healing requires that the body have at
hand all the physical nutrients and structural material it requires to fully
regenerate all tissues and organs.
This is not available, for example, in most peopleÕs diets. So healing often involves improving the
diet and often it means taking supplementary nutrients as well.
EMOTIONAL
HEALING
Emotional healing
requires the following:
1. Getting off what is called the emotional
roller coaster. The roller coaster
effect occurs when one is ruled by uncontrollable emotions that at best exhaust
the person and at worst lead to addictions, bad behaviors and more.
Moderating the good and bad emotions are needed
in order to avoid the wide swings that characterize the roller coaster. Maturity is part of the process, along
with what is called detachment.
Many methods can help to even out the
emotions. They range from removing
toxic metals and enhancing nutrition to more rest and sleep. Others are traditional therapy and many
non-traditional techniques such as meditation, biofeedback and so many others.
2. Emotional detachment. This is a separate phenomenon from #1
just above. It is actually a
retraining of the mind to observe itself at all times. This way, one becomes much more
detached from everything and everyone in a positive manner, however.
It is not isolation or not caring. However, the person is much less
involved and therefore reacts less and can be more present and objective with
everyone and every situation.
The meditation article
and exercise we offer on this site causes emotional detachment automatically, a
fascinating process to behold in oneself and in your loved ones.
3.
Letting go of the past, especially negative emotional traumas. Emotional healing involves and requires letting
go of all that is not conducive to a positive emotional environment. For many, this is the most difficult
step in emotional healing.
The traumas of the past leave powerful imprints
on every aspect of our lives, from our posture and body image to our identity
and personality traits. Slowly,
one can bring up these traumas and let them go.
The process happens automatically with
nutritional balancing science and meditation, for which reason we recommend
these sciences. It can also be
hastened in many cases by chirpractic, bodywork like rolfing or structural
integration and other deep balancing techniques.
Even acupuncture and acupressure can help, as
can many other natural therapies.
This is the opposite of burying the past, as drug medicine often
accomplishes very well, at least until the problem overflows, often in a fit of
rage and violence that ends tragically.
This can mean a change in one's relationships,
one's family situation, work or even location. It is inherently disruptive, and for this reason requires a
fair amount of emotional maturity.
It is thus usually done a little later in life, say in the 30s or 40s
and often not before.
MENTAL
HEALING
1. Taking stock. At a mental level, healing involves
taking honest stock of oneÕs attitudes and beliefs. This is most difficult for the great majority of people. It must be done over and over, as old
attitudes easily creep back into the consciousness, especially if reinforced by
family members, parents, friends, the media and others.
2. Letting go of false beliefs and harmful
attitudes. Mental healing, as here
explained, means letting go of any attitude or belief system that is not
compatible with the truth of who we are and what is going on in our world.
The most common belief that must be eliminated
for good in all spheres of life is victimhood. This is the ultimate ego trip. It is about self-pity, comparing oneself with others,
feeling one is ÒentitledÓ to the money, things, and more that seem to belong
more to others and much more.
Political beliefs based on victimhood include
the entitlement mentality, socialism, the redistribution of wealth by force
through taxes and much more. These
attitudes and beliefs are hard to face for most people. The party that does so the best is
Libertarian, although they are not without problems at times.
3. Balancing attitudes and action. Mental healing is also about balancing
the mind and body. For example, there
is a time for analysis and a time for action.
There is a time for reflection and a time for
moving ahead with faith. There is
a time for lulling oneself to sleep and a time to wake up and face the
world.
These are mental/spiritual balance ideas that
are needed by all of us and take time and experience to develop. Years are required in most cases to
learn about a balanced mind and body.
This is the reason we donÕt let teens make all
our life decisions for us, for example.
They have not learned these delicate balances and so they make many
mistakes and take chances that are not wise. They require loving, firm parents in most cases to restrain
them until they learn more about their own beliefs, attitudes and can balance
all of it together.
4. Taking full responsibility for
oneself. This is an essential
area of mental balance related directly to the problem of feeling like a
victim. Full responsibility is
impossible for a victim, who is y definition being used in some way by someone
else.
5. Committing to the higher self and to
happiness and health. This is another
advanced mental balance that all must achieve if they want long life and
health. It means releasing any
habit, behavior, job, persons, attitudes that are blocking true happiness and healing.
This is not an easy task, as that which looks
daunting may be the best thing for oneÕs develaopment. That which looks easy may be holding
one back by not developing the talents and faculties.
For example, many books have been written by wealthy
people begging others not to give money to their minor or even adult
children. The reason, while it
seems harsh and cruel, is that it often holds the children back. They become lazy, dependent, angry and
spoiled. That is a tough one for
most parents, of course, but no doubt true enough.
6. Related mental traits that are needed are
discipline, forgiveness of self and others, desire, allowing and
surrender. These are covered in
more detail in other articles on this website, such as Steps To Mental Healing.
SPIRITUAL
HEALING
As
with mental healing, spiritual healing is a complex, lifelong process for
everyone. It involves many
aspects. Here are just a few. The article entitled Spiritual Development contains much more
on this subject.
1.
Reducing the influence of the ego.
The ego, with which everyone is identified most of the time, is small
and insignificant no matter what it thinks. Moments that are called peak experiences, ecstasy or
enlightenment are when the ego has somehow been put aside.
2. Touching the deeper self, which is vast,
powerful and mysterious. It has been
approached through LSD therapy, but this is a dangerous method.
Near-death experiences and out-of-body
experiences touch it. People
returning from these experiences are often transformed. Their lives change dramatically and
their illnesses and neuroses often vanish. Excellent books about these experiences are those by Raymond
Moody, Damian Brinkley and others.
Writers
from biblical times to the present have described vast realms and dimensions
inhabited by incredible beings, places we visit during sleep, and so
forth. We seldom give ourselves
credit for the beings we are.
3.
A focus on the upper chakras and the spirit in oneself and others. While physical symptoms may be addressed along
the way, the spiritual self also needs to be a focus. This is far from easy for most everyone.
Sexual desire, for example, is a lower chakra
phenomenon, as are all human relationships, family relations, work
considerations and more. So this
takes vigilance and usually guidance of an advanced person who can see things
more objectively.
For
example, what many consider a spiritual focus such as affirmations or
meditation, can easily turn selfish as one asks for love, money, happiness and
more. So the pitfalls are numerous
and for most people it is mainly a losing or difficult uphill battle.
Jesus and others taught the way, but it is not
an easy road. He said one needs
constant Òvigilance for the kingdom of GodÓ, and said as one advances, even
more vigilance is required or one can slip dangerously down the slope of subtle
ego desires.
REQUIREMENTS
FOR DEEP HEALING
For healing, certain requirements are helpful,
if not absolutely necessary. Here
is a short list of these:
1. One must follow the four-step program to
develop the will to live. This is
explained in a separate article entitled The Will To Live. The first two steps are desire and
intention. Desire is the movement
of the being or emotion in a direction.
Intention is sustained desire over time and space.
The other two steps are allowing, which is the
willingness to receive assistance, and surrender. The last step is taken for you if you do the others
correctly.
These four steps, done daily, will help anyone
develop a will to live. One must
realize that many diseases such as cancer, for example, take away the will to
live. So does any pain syndrome,
any mental problem and any disability such as the inability to cook for oneself
or walk or stand up right.
So developing a will to live is essential in
these cases, but really is important for everyone at all times.
Even societal influences can kill the will to
live, such as the news, high gas prices and so forth. Wars always cause this problem, though wars of liberation,
such as liberating Iraq from terrorists, should have the opposite effect if
people were thinking clearly. The
media, and the media alone, are to blame for negative opinion about this noble
American effort that is succeeding mightily.
2. Relax.
This may seem like an unlikely first requirement for the deepest healing
to take place. However, resting
and relaxing the nervous system are very important requirements. Rushing around to find the latest cure
or method can destroy effectiveness of even the finest healing method or
program.
This one comes first because it is the basis for
learning to tune in, so to speak, and become very intuitive about what you
actually need and what is being sold to you as beneficial by others or by the
media, for example. Learning to
relax and sit back and enjoy yourself first is thus essential for deeper
healing to take place.
3. Rest.
This is placed second because so many people do not get well, even if
they are doing an excellent healing program, because they do not rest enough.
Rest also facilitates spiritual development, a key to healing today.
4.
Believe in what you are doing. To
the extent one believes in any method, it will be the most effective for healing. This may be hard to believe, but it is
often true.
Having said this, we much prefer natural,
low-toxicity, non-invasive methods to traditional or conventional medical
methods most of the time. The
reasons, however, are not that the medical methods donÕt work. It is that they are not deep enough, as
explained earlier in the section about healing versus symptom removal.
5. Do whatever it takes to follow your
healing method. At times, one may
have to be tricked into healing by being placed in fearsome machines,
experiencing pain, or by other means such as fear, shame, gimmicks,
embarrassment or others. This is
all fine and whatever is required to follow a program and dscipline oneself is
worth the effort.
Many people fail, however, because they do not
follow through or become discrouaged in some way by friends, family, their own
depression or other factors.
6. Open yourself to unlikely and unlimited
possibilities. Some would call these
miracles. Understanding the
limitless possibilities for healing in itself facilitates healing, as it helps
release the fear and despair that are often at the root of what must be
overcome for healing to occur.
7.
Develop compassion or self-love to a very high degree. Some say that only love heals. Love is the essence of what we are, and
the force that keeps us going. It
has nothing to do with romance, sex, families or friends. This concept of love is explained in
other articles on this website
From this view, healers and techniques serve
only to remind us of our loveliness and wholeness. When we love ourselves enough, negative energy patterns
disappear and the body heals.
In fact, healings occur all the time that would
be called miracles. We just accept
them and doctors give them fancy names such as spontaneous regressions and the
like.
8. Reclaim your power. Healing requires giving up the victim mentality,
and recognizing and reclaiming power.
The ego part of oneself is a fearful victim that seeks safety and
security. The grander part of
oneself is powerful, adventurous and unafraid. This is the part of each of us that will lead us out of our
bondage to illness and depression.
One must often embrace this part and turn away from the fearful side
each of us has in order to persist and succeed.
9.
Take responsibility. With power comes
responsibility. The attitude of
taking responsibility for whatever exists in one's life is very
empowering. It should not create
guilt.
If one created a mess, one can un-create
it. No need to waste time and
energy in self-pity or blaming others.
Even if one does not know what to do, just the idea that one has the
power to alter one's life is new for many people and most empowering.
10.
Develop a sense of humor. This is not an
absolute requirement, but can be really helpful. Some readers are familiar with Norman CousinsÕ experience
with a crippling form of arthritis called spondylitis.
When his doctors told him there was little hope
of a cure, he cured himself watching humorous movies. At first, laughing gave him temporary relief from pain. After a while, the relief lasted longer
until the pain did not return.
Laughing
breaks one out of the negative thought and belief patterns that often created
the illness in the first place. It
is hard to laugh and be depressed or angry at the same time.
Humor
temporarily detaches one from predicaments, reduces stress and releases
beneficial substances into the blood.
11.
Detach emotionally. This idea is
mentioned earlier. However, it is
also a key to healing of any kind.
Emotional detachment allows one to examine
beliefs and behaviors without defensiveness or guilt. It helps one explore new ideas and therapies, avoid
resentments and guilt, and stay calm in the midst of chaos.
12.
Participate actively. Research has shown
for years that people who are ornery, who question everything and who take an
active interest in their healing do better than the passive patients that
doctors often adore.
So if you want to do well, question everything. However, do not disobey orders. The two are not the same. Go through with your program even if it
seems odd and as long as you are responding. Try to stay out of passive mode, which is usually a give-up
mode of behaving.
TECHNIQUES
AND MODALITIES
Healing
is facilitated or impeded by a myriad of techniques or modalities. I believe that anyone may become well
in time and with effort. However,
the exact methods they will use will vary greatly.
Some cases simpler than others. In some people, it will be easy and one
modality or method will suffice.
In other cases, such as my own, several methods together were needed at
times, such as meditation, sauna therapy and coffee enemas. Otherwise I donÕt know if it would have
been possible.
One has only to consult the holistic healing
section of a library or book store to be deluged with healing methods and
modalities. For this reason, the
same condition can be approached through thousands of methods, literally. The idea that only medical doctors, or
only some other system is capable of assisting oneÕs healing is bunk. There is nothing more to say about that
idea.
Using combinations of modalities. In addition, one will usually heal best
using a combination of physical or structural methods such as chiropractic or
bodywork in addition to physical methods such as sauna therapy, hydrotherapy
such as colon cleansing and more.
In addition, nutritional and other biochemical approaches are most
helpful along with the physical methods.
Other levels or varieties of therapy include
electrical or energetic ones, emotional, mental, spiritual and even other
subtle ones. All may be helpful or
even needed in some instances.
Looking at a sunset, petting your cat, sitting
under a tree, talking to a friend and thousands of other experiences can also
facilitate healing. Have we all
not had such experiences? Use them
to your advantage as part of your support system, to use a modern term.
Complexity is reality in the healing area. The multiplicity of healing methods
reflects just how complex our bodies are, in truth. It also reflects how exotic and remarkable is the universe
in which we live. That is, people
have figured out many ways to approach the body and mind, many of which seem
very unlikely, such as rubbing the feet and sticking needles into the body, as
just one example. However, these
are among the best, in fact.
Preventing confusion. It is easy to become totally confused and
sidetracked by running from therapy to therapy or modality to modality. This is a sure way to stop healing in
most, though not all cases. Here
are a few guidelines to help prevent this situation:
1. Distinguish methods that bring wholeness from
the many remedies that simply suppress or rearrange symptoms.
2. Give a method some time, at least a month
or two, before switching.
3. Be sure the one or ones you are using can
be combined, so you are negating the one with another.
4. Especially with supplements, herbs, drugs
and other physical products, do not combine regimens unless you are absolutely
sure they are fully compatible. We
also warn people, for example, never to combine other vitamins, herbs, teas and
other things with the supplements recommended on a nutritional balancing
program. Doing so will usually
negate the regimen which is fine balanced for each person.
5.
Watch out for healing reactions.
Keep in touch with your professional guides, counselors, doctors or
whomever you are working with.
Healing reactions are not bad, but disease reactions are. You must understand your program and
know if it is working, no matter how you may feel at a particular time. This is an important reason for
failure, as mentioned earlier in this article.
6. Go slow and steady. People who stop and start programs
rarely are successful. They are
almost as bad as people who flit from program to program. Be steady and strong, as they sometimes
say. Think long-term and hang in
there.
However, if you are clear your method or
practitioner is not helpful, then move right on and donÕt linger and second
guess yourself. Far better to
abandon the old and move on than to waver, unless you are not sure, in which
case get more professional help.
7. Trust.
This may seem odd, but many people fail because they have no faith in
anything or anyone. They fail
because they cannot give up control and allow a method to do its work.
Remember, many times to get well requires a
change in your body, your thinking, your lifestyle or some other part of your
identify. Those who cannot give up
the past often fail for these reasons.
So you must trust the universe, trust in God if you believe in him,
trust your practitioner and trust that the future is great.
HEALERS
AND DOCTORS
Healing
happens! Doctors, nurses,
therapists, ministers and counselors facilitate the healing process, but do not
cause it. Any doctor or
healer who gets puffed up with his or her successes is an egotist, pure and
simple. Avoid these people if at
all possible.
However, some have developed certain gifts, or
are more open, in touch with their abilities and willing to share with
others. These are the people to
work with as healers, nurses, doctors and other therapists.
We are all healers, in fact. Whether it be with a smile, a loving
handshake, a hug or many other ways, we are all healers if we choose to
be. Do so, however, at your own
risk.
The medical and health authorities only
authorize doctors, nurses and other ÒapprovedÓ people to heal. This is total nonsense and one reason
health care costs are skyrocketing.
Research
reported by Dr. Bernie Siegel, MD indicates that those who question and even
disobey their doctors, taking back control of their healing process, fare
better than the "good, cooperative patientsÓ. What does this say about the present structure of our
medical system?
THE
CHALLENGE OF HEALING
The challenge is not to give up the quest and
fall back into the fragmented way of thinking that characterizes conventional
medicine and often even natural health care.
For
example, I lived in Phoenix, Arizona for over 15 years. I loved it when I first moved
there. However, as Phoenix grew
more crowded and polluted, I grew more healthy and more spiritually
oriented. I was doing my coffee
enemas, vitamins in a nutritional balancing program, meditation every day and
more.
I found myself depressed and anxious living
there. I realized I had to leave,
though it meant giving up my business and friends and moving somewhere, I knew
not where. It all worked out, but
it was a supreme challenge. I
could have just stayed in the city, but was willing to continue the adventure,
as I call it.
Many others face similar challenges in their work,
relationships or other areas of life.
The challenge is to keep going, especially as we get older and more
frail with age.
PEOPLE
WHO HEAL AND THOSE WHO DO NOT
Having
worked with over 30,000 patients, those who heal tend to be those willing to
make whatever changes are needed to facilitate the healing process. Those who want healing "on their
own terms" do far worse.
This
includes the time frame for healing, what healing looks like and feels like, and
the outcome in terms of every aspect of one's life.
EASY
CASES
If healing occurs very
easily, it is usually not deep healing.
It was a superficial problem, even if it looked scary, and therefore it
responded to a simple intervention.
This is important because some claim healing that is really not very
profound.
Healing, by contrast, must involve all aspects
of life and must touch the deepest places inside one.
Healing
also involves a change in attitude that changes every facet of life. If it does not do this, it is not
healing. At times, distinguishing a
superficial ÒhealingÓ from a real, deep one may be difficult. However, these guidelines can help a
lot.
SUMMARY
Certain
axioms or themes are involved in the healing process:
á
We are each powerful, mysterious, complex, multidimensional
beings, no matter how frail and dysfunctional the body may be.
á
There is a oneness of body, mind and spirit.
á
Events originate from within. We create our lives.
This power is never taken away, though it may be given away temporarily.
á
Healing has to do with taking full and complete responsibility for
all of one's creations.
á
Techniques, methods, and therapies may facilitate healing. However, ultimately, life heals or love
heals, not a pill or operation.
á
These, however, are needed today if we cannot heal on other levels
to the point where medicines, herbs, vitamins and other props or aids are not
required. So do not abandon your
healers and modalities.
á
Healers, doctors, and therapists are facilitators only.
á
Desire, intention, allowing and surrender play critical roles in
healing.
á
Forgiveness of self and others are important aspects of the
healing process.
á
Discipline, derived from same root as 'disciple', is an important
aspect of healing.
Shifting
one's perspective to embrace these axioms of healing is one of the most
important activities one can engage in.
Resources
A
Course in Miracles
Anatomy
of an Illness by Norman Cousins
Getting
Well Again by O. Carl Simington
Journey
Beyond Words by Brent Haskell
Journeys
Out of the Body by Robert Monroe
Joy's
Way by
Brugh Joy
Life
After Life by Raymond Moody
Love,
Medicine and Miracles by Bernie Siegel
Love
Without End by Glenda Green
On
Death and Dying by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
Patient
Power
by John Goodman and Gerald Musgrave
Pray
Well by
Walter Weston
Quantum
Healing
by Depak Chopra
Saved
by the Light by Damian Brinkley
Space,
Time and Medicine by Larry Dossey
The
Healing Path by Marc Ian Barasch
The
Jeshua Letters by Marc Hammer
Who
Lives
by Richard Moss
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