by Lawrence Wilson, MD
© December 2009, The Center for Development
Meditation is a very commonly-used word. It generally refers to methods of calming or stilling the
mind. In some instances,
meditation refers specifically to a religious or spiritual practice of some
kind. However, in this article and
in all articles on this website, the word refers to a specific type of mental
concentration and observation at the same time. This is very important to understand, as otherwise one may
think that meditation
refers to any number of exercises that are offered today.
This
exercise is adapted from the work of Mr. Roy Masters of The Foundation Of Human Understanding or
www.fhu.com. I purposely
include this reference so that anyone can go there and listen to his meditation
procedure before moving on to the slightly modified version I will recommend in
this article and perhaps in others on this website.
Mr.
Masters calls himself a Judeo-Christian teacher, but the meditation, he says,
has no particular religious affiliation and does not require any. He says he learned it spontaneously as
a child and just found it gave him a special kind of peace and perspective, so
he just kept doing it. His
religious beliefs came later when, though the insights he gained due to
meditating each day, he realized that there was validity to some of the words
and phrases in the bible. He says
that you, too, will have similar insights once you begin meditating as he
recommends. I have found he is correct
about this idea.
The rest of this article, in many ways,
begins where Roy Masters leaves off.
This is done intentionally to save time. I strongly suggest that anyone interested in meditation read
a book by Mr. Masters called How
Your Mind Can Keep You Well.
This is his basic little book about the meditation exercise, and the
most important of his 12 or so books.
The others deal with specific issues such as parents, sexuality, food,
medicine and other topics. They
vary and some are quite difficult to read, in fact.
Reading is not the
answer. Mr. Masters states clearly that reading
will never solve your problems, so do not waste a lot of time reading
books. Instead, learn to meditate
every day and most problems will leave you. I agree with this and so I do not recommend reading a lot of
books for this reason. However,
Mr. Masters basic book on meditation is helpful to get started and for a basic
understanding of the procedure and why it is different than all the others I
have encountered.
A DEFINITION OF
MEDITATION
Moving
on beyond the basics that Mr. Masters discusses, I will define meditation as a specific
exercise or method for bringing into the body the maximum amount of subtle
energy. This may seem like
an unusual definition. It is not the usual reason why one meditates. However, it is the intent of this
particular exercise.
The
subtle energy refers to a basic physical energy that animates all life on
planet earth. The energy itself is
unseen and unfelt for the most part, but is in fact the basic ‘stuff’ or
“ether” out of which all created matter is built. In other cultures and traditions, it is known as prana, chi,
qi, vital force, life energy or perhaps zero-point energy.
The
more of this energy that we possess or take in and pass through our bodies, the
better we look and feel. Also, by
ingesting or absorbing more of it, we can develop certain brain centers that
otherwise remain dormant in almost everyone. These can offer new abilities such as telepathy, an ability
to see the aura or energy field around an object or person, and much more.
Thus,
the single goal of this meditation is to bring in more of this energy in a safe
and simple manner. This can be
done by anyone willing to spend the time to do the exercise. I have used this method for some 30
years on a daily basis. It has
helped heal the body and developed my mind in ways I would not have imagined. This is the only reason I continue to
recommend it.
EMPTYING THE MIND
The means of bringing in the new energy is most important. It is to empty the mind, empty the ego,
empty the self of as much of this world as possible for the short period of
meditation. This is critical to
understand. Roy Masters does not
emphasize this enough, but it is at the very core or essence of this exercise
if one is to succeed with it.
The concept is discussed in the bible by Jesus, in particular, and
probably in other places of which I am unaware, as I am not a biblical
scholar. The phrase, “not my will,
but Thine be done” is exactly this idea.
It is the idea of emptying the self of all that one thinks is important
and instead opening the self, the mind, the body, the joints of the body in
particular, to something new, something different, something beyond this
physical world.
A NEW SOURCE OF ENERGY
The
reason I define meditation as I do is that the main benefit of the exercise
recommended here is to permit one to connect with a new source of personal and
healing energy. This may seem like
a strange idea. However, it is no
doubt true, and one can feel it, first as a slight tingling and later
throughout the body. This source
is the etheric or subtle energy of the universe.
This
source promotes and provides health and long life. It is also associated with new abilities and powers that are
not available when one is connected only to the physical and environmental
sources of energy or physical reality.
This is the key to the meditation exercise.
THE GOAL OF THIS PRACTICE
The
goal of meditation is to activate your full potential. This is more than just calming the
mind, or increasing one’s awareness, although these are among its
benefits. It is a long, slow road,
so it is best to begin now.
BENEFITS OF MEDITATION
PHYSICAL HEALING
The
effects of the new source of energy are many, and they occur on all levels of
our being. For example, physical
healing occurs because the subtle energy, as it enters the body through the
head, automatically flows everywhere in the body and helps to deconstrict and decongest areas of
the brain and body.
Many
other subtle changes occur in the glands and other organs of the physical
body. For example, the practice of
sitting quietly and meditating as suggested inhibits the sympathetic nervous system. This is the fight-or-flight nervous
system. Resting this system
powerfully rests
the adrenal and thyroid glands and assists the activity of the immune, digestive and
elimination systems of the body.
Many
other benefits flow from this one benefit to the nervous system. Breathing tends to automatically slow and deepen,
bringing more oxygen to the body cells.
As breathing changes, the body becomes better oxygenated. More oxygen in the body greatly assists
the proper nutrition and metabolism in the body. This often brings healing all by itself and is the reason
oxygen therapies are highly recommended for certain ailments.
Causing healing
reactions. As the physical body shifts due to the
effects of the meditation, you can expect some unusual or just annoying healing
symptoms, at times. This is
nothing to be concerned about and they will pass. Perhaps skip the meditation for a day if you feel your body
needs to “catch up” or move through something one day.
On
the other hand, at times, meditating more will move the reaction through
faster. Some experimentation will
be needed to learn how to best handle these situations. I may be able to assist you if
difficulties of this type continue to arise. For example, you may be overlooking a procedure or aspect of
your life that needs more attention.
MENTAL/EMOTIONAL HEALING
So
much change occurs on mental and emotional levels that a large section of this
article will discuss just a few of the major ones.
Mental
healing occurs for several reasons. Meditation is like a once or a twice-a-day mental checkup. Often you will find that you
automatically review your day and plan for tomarrow without having to think
about it.
Incomplete thought
processes will be completed as the mind stops racing out of control. Most people do not realize that they are so busy with their
momentary activities that they do not complete their thoughts, and many
projects at home or at work. So during
meditation, you will realize what you need to do and many thought processes
will complete on their own. This not only
relaxes the mind and the emotions in many cases. Often this also brings with it surprising insights and
creative ideas for you.
Old mental and
emotional traumas come up for viewing and are resolved in the light. This reduces stress dramatically. This is a very necessary process for many people’s physical
and even more so their emotional and mental healing. It is not always pleasant, but if one will just observe
whatever comes up with equanimity and an observing attitude, not judging
whatever it is, then it will pass eventually. That is all that is needed in most cases. Rarely, it is wise to talk about your
insights with a counselor or a good friend, but usually this is not necessary,
nor is it always helpful since all that is usually needed is to let it go and
move on. Talking for hours about it is not usually helpful at all.
Meditation also brings
and keeps one in the present moment. This is where
all wisdom and healing lie. Fear and
anxiety are in the future, while guilt and remorse are in the past. You will begin to understand this much
better as you meditate daily. This
exercise is superb for keeping a person in the present time, something that
most people have difficulty doing well and consistently.
The exercise is
extremely grounding and centering. This is not
true of most meditations, by the way.
Grounding, which is the subject of an article on this website, is most
important for healing for many people today. Especially as our world is changing rapidly, grounding and
centering are extremely important for all healing processes.
Deprogramming, rather
than reprogramming. The exercise deprograms the mind and
even the body in many ways by upsetting and breaking up old tensions. That is, it slowly undoes your past
traumas and issues.
In contrast, affirmations, most
visualization and concentration exercises only reprogram the mind. This is a vital difference between this
meditation and almost all others that I have seen.
Whitewashing Vs. Removal. This subject could fill an entire
book. It means that other methods
will tend to whitewash over your problems, fears, angers and the rest of the
unwanted thoughts and emotions.
Instead, the meditation I recommend here will often do the opposite.
It will bring them up for review. If you are able to just observe them
without too much reaction, they will then be released and you will be free from
the original cause of the attitude, emotion or thought.
This process of deprogramming takes a few
years, but is well worth the effort. Each level of traumas and hidden emotions and thoughts
that you progress through clears more negative thought patterns and little by
little you will be free and will function much better in every way.
Deprogramming and Healing. Freeing negative energetic patterns
also greatly opens the body for every kind of healing. This difference between the exercise I
recommend and almost all others is definitely worth understanding completely.
A BRIEF LOOK AT AFFIRMATIONS
AND SOME PRAYER
The Time For
Affirmations. Affirmations, visualization, prayer and
the other types of meditative exercise are definitely needed at times, but one
should understand when and why.
Basically, these are most helpful if they
1) help you relax enough to do this exercise, 2) help out to overcome extremely
negative thoughts and feelings that some people experience, at times, and 3)
they can teach a person that there is help available from other realms, as in
using the 23rd Psalm and so many other wonderful prayers and
affirmations. There may be other
benefits, but these are the main ones that I have noticed with prayer and
affirmations of many kinds.
The problem is, most people are content
to just use their prayers and affirmations and do not realize that another type
of mental exercise is available to them and is easy to do. Some may believe they have to pay a lot
of money to learn “real” meditation, or travel far away, or sit for hours, or
something else. None of this is
true. Affirmations are a wonderful
and often necessary start, but one can go much further with mental
exercises. So please do not
believe that affirmations and prayer are the whole answer, as many books, CDs,
videos and even churches suggest.
Prayer is Asking, Meditation
is Receiving. This I have heard from several sources
and there is some truth to it. In
fact, of course, asking and receiving cannot be separated so easily.
Prayer involves opening oneself to
receive, and indeed the proper use of prayer is to open oneself. That is, indeed, the beauty of
prayer. Many people pray
selfishly, not really opening themselves to God’s will or the higher will. They are often disappointed.
Meditation is a much more powerful aspect
of prayer that some people do naturally and some must learn specifically. One could say the exercise I recommend
is designed to help anyone learn to pray in a powerful way.
I was once asked by a friend who spent
some time with me, “How often do you pray?” I thought about it and answered as truthfully as I can,
saying “continuously”.
This is the truth of the meditation I am
suggesting. It will lead you to
what may be called “a prayerful attitude” that will overtake your life in all
your waking and even during sleep.
Roy Masters, from whom I learned the exercise, says that one should
eventually do his exercise 24 hours a day. It becomes a habit, though not a mindless habit.
THIS MEDITATION IS:
·
A Habit That Allows You to End Your Attachment To
Mindless Habits.
·
A Discipline That Helps Remove The Need For So Much
Discipline.
·
A Use Of Your Lower Will That Helps End The Reign Of
Your Lower Will.
Meditation is a form of psychotherapy. It gently brings up hidden thoughts and
attitudes so they can be examined objectively. It is a self-therapy that proceeds at your own pace and brings up issues in
exactly the correct order. By
cultivating the ‘witness’ in oneself, it shines the light of truth on every
activity, relationship and event in one’s life. This has a powerful healing effect if one is willing to make
needed changes that are best for oneself and best for others as well. While psychotherapy can be beneficial,
problems with all psychotherapy are that one must interact with a therapist who
is usually not completely clear about all of his or her own issues, so things
become confused and distorted in all instances that I have observed. In other words, just interacting with
another, while often helpful, also introduces other input and theories and so
on that may not be relevant and often send the client off in random directions,
many of which today are not helpful.
Negative and random,
distracting thoughts suddenly are found to have less power. This is a mental effect that is quite startling to
people. It has to do with observing
one’s thoughts and the idea of bringing up and releasing old traumas. As this is done, the negative thoughts
and feelings associated with the traumas stop coming into your mind.
You
may find that oddly, you no longer feel sorry for yourself, for example, or you
will strangely find you are less angry or upset with your family, perhaps. Automatically reducing this negative
thinking is an incredible benefit for many people who have tried affirmations,
prayer, other meditations and many methods to accomplish this goal.
This meditation is an
anti-hypnosis. Roy Masters is a hypnotist by
profession. He realized people did
not need hypnosis to cure their problems.
In fact, most are already hypnotized! Most people live in a light trance state that he calls “the
hypnosis of life”. For example,
television advertising, he says is just a way of giving many people a
post-hypnotic suggestion to buy a certain car or brand of shampoo. Advertising may work because the
population is already in somewhat of a trance state and are easily influenced
by these silly ads. Advertising
has other more spiritual aspects, however, which is to raise awareness and
alert people to new products and services. However, many ads are aimed at unconscious and often
hypnotic suggestions to lure people unsoncsiously. This is what might be called the dark side of advertising.
Meditation, by increasing awareness, very
slowly assists one out of the hypnotic or very light trance state they are in
and helps them come back to reality.
Meditation will help
develop healthier attitudes. Emotionally,
one slowly becomes more centered and balanced in one’s attitudes and approaches
to life. One becomes more centered in oneself, which
is not the same as becoming self-centered. The difference between these two states is enormous. Centered in oneself means that one has a place of
balance and peace within. This
allows one to be much less self-centered, which means preoccupied with the ego self or
selfishness.
These physical, mental and emotional
effects combine to reshape the entire person, top to bottom, into a more
loving, more unselfish, more enlightened being. This is the beauty of this meditation.
HABIT CHANGE
With this meditation,
bad habits will tend to drop you. Interestingly,
you will no longer be compatible with them. Many such habits simply stem from unawareness. As your awareness grows, you will see
the roots of your habits. This
meditation allows you to understand yourself without becoming morbid or negatively
self-conscious.
You
will see the process of your thinking and why you smoke, drink alcohol or
engage in other habits or activities that deplete you. As you begin to take more of your
cues from the higher self or real self, you will be less often triggered by
people or events. Common sense and
a spiritual sense take over.
Change then becomes much easier.
Life becomes simpler and happier without exerting any special effort,
except to keep meditating even if you think you have “arrived” or become “enlightened”.
THE WITNESS
The exercise offers a
simple way to retrain the mind to watch itself without judgment or
condemnation. It is not, in
itself, a way to solve problems, but a way to increase awareness.
By increasing awareness, one understands oneself and others
better. This understanding brings
solutions for problems without struggle or effort. The only effort required is to practice the exercise
regularly.
This
is a unique way to solve problems.
I first read about the idea years ago in the books written by J.
Krishnamurti. I highly recommend
reading one of his books. However,
while he recommends meditation as the solution to all problems, he does not offer
a specific exercise, so the results did not come. I believe he practiced this same exercise but either did not
wish to share the details or perhaps did not realize the need to share them
clearly. As a result, his books
are wonderful to read, but will not produce the same results as doing the recommended
exercise in this article.
USEFUL ANALOGIES FOR THIS
MEDITATION
This
meditation is:
·
Taming
the wild beast of the mind. At times, the exercise can
feel like ‘breaking’ a wild horse or trying to tame another wild beast.
·
Coming
home. It is like deciding to stay home, so to
speak, and spend time with your real self instead of just running out all the
time with various distractions and activities. This meditation is a way of being with oneself in a relaxed
way, of viewing problems without running from them or having to react in any
way.
·
Turning
down the volume of a blaring radio, so you can hear the more subtle music
within.
·
Going
to the movies every day. However, the subject of
the movie is yourself. This may
seem boring, morbid or self-centered but it is really none of these. You are a child of god and to explore
and see yourself in this way is a wonderful exercise that helps you to
appreciate yourself and then to appreciate others at deeper levels as well.
·
Magnetizing
a piece of iron. This
particular exercise is like stroking a piece of iron with a magnet to magnetize
the piece of iron. One simply
strokes the iron over and over again in the exact same direction and way, and
sooner or later the iron becomes
magnetized properly. It may
take thousands of repetitions, however, to form a strong magnet. Once done, however, it is quite
permanent, and indeed, it builds upon itself.
·
Inducing
a current flow in a transformer. A more exact analogy for this exercise is that of a
transformer that induces a current.
The exercise actually induces a kind of electrical current in the
body. In a transformer, one wire
that is connected to a battery or energy source is placed next to another one,
although they are not directly connected.
The current and voltage from the first wire, when set up properly, is
able to induce or cause a voltage in the second wire. This is somewhat of a good description of what is going on
with the Roy Masters meditation.
The energized wire is the energy that one moves through the body. The body itself is the other wire that
becomes energized, as a result.
FROM EXTERNALLY
CONTROLLED TO INTERNALLY MOTIVATED
This
meditation helps enormously to shift the control or major influence on a person
from the world and its hidden forces and agendas, toward control by the inner
person. This makes room in the
mind and opens the way, later, for receiving other excellent guidance that is
not of this world.
Beware, however, any
time the mind is made receptive to guidance. Change
in this direction, however, takes time and occurs slowly and gently in most
cases. If an opening occurs
quickly, all the better. However,
one must be on guard, at all times, against the intrusion of other beings into
the mind who are not benign, or who are less benign. These are sometimes called negative souls or negative
guides.
One
must always use common sense in regard to following any possible guidance. It is imperative that one stay well
rested, well-hydrated and well-nourished so the mind never is allowed to become
unbalanced or too tired.
Meditation allows one
to unfold from within, like a flower in the spring. In our physical development, we grow from the inside out, but mentally most
people grow from without to within. That is, one’s education, friends, events
and traumas shape the mind from the outside in. This meditation permits a different kind of mental and
emotional development from within.
It occurs according to one’s personal plan, not by accident or by the
effects of others or random circumstances of ones life.
This
is a fascinating concept of the unfoldment of the mental and emotional nature
of an individual and few methods permit this type of unfoldment. I was told by Roy Masters and others
that I might not even recognize myself as I begin to unfold from within. But not to worry, they said, because my
positive qualities would be maintained.
The only ones that would drop away would be those that were not truly
mine, but instead had been “slapped on” by unthinking or just unconscious
parents, friends, teachers and others.
These need to be removed.
Some may not like the “new you” but they are not your real friends, as
the real ones will love that you are “coming into your own” in new ways.
THE ULTIMATE LIFESTYLE
MODIFICATION
This
exercise is the ultimate lifestyle modification because it will slowly shift a
number of areas in your lifestyle, often in interesting and unusual ways as you
keep meditating.
IMPROVED RELATIONSHIPS
AND MORE LOVE
Meditation
cultivates a relationship between the inner self and the outer self. In other words, it is a powerful way of
cultivate a sincere, loving relationship with yourself, one that is not a
relationship with the ego self. To
cultivate a relationship with the ego self is easy, as the ego is always
demanding things and one simply follows the impulses to eat some ice cream,
perhaps, or buy some new clothes or put on some makeup to look better, perhaps.
This
is a different kind of loving relationship that is not about the ego self or
even about the mind. The mind is
actually part of the ego. The mind
might make demands, too, such as it wants to be entertained by going to a movie
or perhaps it wants to be stimulated by reading a fascinating article or book,
even this one. This is still of
the ego self, though perhaps at a different level.
The
relationship that is cultivated through this meditation is actually still at an
ego level, but so subtle that it is far more health-producing and healing. It is actually a relationship with the
most subtle aspects of the body-mind and spirit.
Because it is at this
high level, however, it tends to straighten out and improve all of one’s other
relationships with people, things, and events. By
working on this relationship, all other relationships improve because one is in
better touch with one’s deepest essence or higher self or God. For example, marriages often begin to
work better, or perhaps one may realize that this marriage is not going to
change much and another course of action is needed.
Children
often begin to shape up and relate to your better because most children are
more in touch with their deeper self, having had less time to learn and build
up layers of ego defense mechanisms that adults have. All other types of professional and personal relationships
also tend to get better. This does
not mean they will all continue, since some are unhealthy and one will become
more acutely aware of this fact.
However, whatever happens, one becomes much more authentic, genuine,
present, and not as easily fooled or manipulated by others.
While
it is not discussed enough in psychology books, a key to relating to others is
to not allow them to manipulate conversations and other activities. This may make others angry, but in the
end it is best for them, as well, of course, as it is for oneself. Allowing others to control and
manipulate oneself is just an ego game that is “par for the course” in most
human relationships. When that
comes to an end, some relationships will disintegrate or end, but that is as it
should be. They will be replaced,
inevitably, by better ones based upon deeper spiritual connections and real friendship rather than seeing
if one can get one’s way with others, as is the more common style on earth.
As one learns to see
oneself more clearly, one sees others with more clarity and discernment. Of course, not all your friends and family will like
this. They may have been using
your anger against you, manipulating you with praise or blame, flattering you to
get what they want or intimidating you with idle threats. You will see all this more clearly and
the relationship will change.
One becomes less
influenced by images and illusions outside as you dissolve the images and
illusions inside your head. One becomes less gullible
and less vulnerable to other's attempts to deceive and control you.
If a couple meditates,
it is like adding a neutral third party or mediator to the relationship. This reduces ego fighting and the
battle of the wills that often occurs between partners. This is an extremely powerful way of doing marriage
counseling, by the way, without having to pay counselors. However, both parties
must really do the exercise correctly, and that, unfortunately, is rare
today. Usually one will do it
thoroughly, while the other is still stuck in what he or she believes is
correct and cannot truly let go completely into the exercise for fear that
perhaps one will see that the perspective was not correct, after all. This is the only problem with
recommending that a couple meditate together, so beware of this possibility.
MEDITATION AND LOVE
By loving oneself
through meditation, one becomes less dependent on the love of others. Meditation allows you to practice true love. Many people want to be loving, but they
don't seem to know how. By connecting to your higher self or real self, one is
filled the love of the Creator.
This can then be shared with others in endless numbers of ways. It can truly allow a person to do as
the bible suggests, to “bless and forgive this world” in each moment.
This
kind of love is detached, asks nothing in return, and is therefore more pure
and unconditional. One can see
what others really need, not what they think they need or what they say they
need. It is the quality of compassion
and not a bargaining session, as too much of “love” is on this planet, such as
“if you love me I will love you.
But if you do this or that, then I don’t love you any more”. This is purely an ego type of love, and
not very spiritual at all.
By
experiencing the “real thing”, one becomes aware of selfish motives and
feelings that one thought were love.
These include attachment, identification, projection, lust, ambition,
sentimentality, enabling and pride.
One will be able to let these go as one sees they are not very deep
forms of love. This can help
relationsips of all kinds in fabulous ways if a person can remember that love
is always blind in that it just loves, and does not look for anything in
return.
EMOTIONAL CONTROL
This
meditation is about getting to "know thyself" at a much deeper
level. It is an impartial way to
study the self and the mind. As
one understands the self more deeply, power and control over the self
increases. As you gain control
over yourself, your emotions come naturally more under your control and begin
to even out. They just have less
power and effect.
In
a sense, the real Armageddon is fought inside your head. When you have conquered yourself,
meaning your own thoughts and emotions, dealing with the world is much easier. The world situation, you will see, is often no more than a reflection of
the struggle that goes on inside each of us. By changing yourself, the spiritual struggle is won and the
world tends to shift in amazing ways around you.
POWER AND AUTHORITY
OVER OTHERS
Interestingly,
you may find yourself oddly more confident, even if nothing changes on the
outside. You may also discover
that you will have more control or authority over others. Some people will not like this, by the
way, especially “old friends” and family who may have known you as you were
before.
These
people are often ones that are used to having you somewhat out of control so
they can manipulate you in certain ways.
This may sound negative but it is the truth, just one truth that you will
learn as you continue to meditate.
You
will see how people feign the truth, change their voice to manipulate and
control others, and use a hundred other sly methods, often without realizing
they are doing it, to control others.
As you see and feel these, you will be less influenced by them.
This
will place you in a superior position of authority, and they will be unhappy
that their little tricks don’t work any more. You must be ready for this, as it will cause some anger on
their part in most cases. But it
is best, of course, as their manipulative actions and words hurt them as much
as they harm others.
GREATER ABILITY TO
LOVE AND HELP OTHERS
Many
times, we wish to help others but it doesn’t seem to work out. By learning to love yourself through meditation,
you will have a greater understanding of how to love others. Without any conscious effort on your
part, for example, you will cease to spread around your stress and your
negative thoughts and emotions you didn't even know you had. This alone can have an amazingly
calming and uplifting effect on everyone around you. They may not understand it, but will just realize that
somehow Mom, Dad, Joe or Nancy is just nicer to be around these days.
You
will have a greater sense of perspective and therefore become more knowing and
compassionate. Compassion is a
special kind of love in which you understand more. You will understand better what people need, when to intervene
and when to leave people alone.
Without even realizing it, you will start to manipulate people less and
just allow them to be more. This
also has a subtle calming effect on some people, though not all.
HAPPINESS
Positiveness
and happiness can tend to be of two basic types. This meditation tends to cause one to develop an honest positiveness
because one lets go of false negative ideas, delusions and useless emotions
such as thinking that I am ugly, stupid, stubborn and worthless. One’s understanding and perspective
begin to derive more and more from the high self or real self, which is happy,
free, relaxed and okay all the time because it is unaffected by the world. This kind of happiness develops slowly
as layer after layer of unreality or unhappy ideas and emotions are removed
from your mind.
This
is very different from the “happiness” and “positive thinking” that many people
experience, especially adults.
Theirs is dependent upon temporarily blocking out the negative ideas and
emotions, usually by turning their focus to something else such as their new
house, their children, their job or friends or family, perhaps.
While
there is nothing wrong with any of these things, if they are used to ignore or
block out negativity, this is called a co-dependent relationship and it is not
healthy. But is the common way in
most people’s lives. It is very
different, for example, than the joy of a newborn baby. They don’t think much or need a new
house or car or friend to feel good.
When they are fed and dry, can just be happy without all these things,
and they can often play by themselves for hours, as every mother and father
knows, in harmony and peace, it seems, and without needing to run away from
anything.
Increased awareness,
or just knowing more, as a result of meditation, can be a great source of
happiness. We all want to understand ourselves and
others better. Awareness can bring
that understanding and this is a source of joy for most people. Of course, awareness occasionally
brings pain as one sees that the world is not as one thought it was. But that usually passes if one realizes
that knowing the truth is best, even if it hurts, at times.
As
you become happier inside, you will stop looking for happiness outside
yourself, and this relieves a great amount of anxiety and stress, bringing even
more happiness. This is another
secret of meditation of this type.
Another
way this meditation brings happiness is that as the body heals the cells begin
to send messages of happiness and joy to the brain. This is a subtle type of happiness that may not be appreciated
by some people, but it is the truth that a healthy body is easier to be happy
within. Life flows more easily,
one can sleep and digest and eliminate better and the hormones that make us
feel good are available in abundance.
All this contributes to a happy outlook on life.
A POSITIVE MENTAL FOCUS
AND WAY TO SOLVE PROBLEMS
Meditation
can provide a new focus for one’s life – to calm down, and become
centered and more self-aware.
These are ancient ways to refocus the goals and purposes of one’s life
that are not heard much today, but are nevertheless wonderful ways to refocus
one’s life. Any shift of focus away from time-wasting and unhealthy ego
pursuits has a healing effect.
Since
meditation offers much greater clarity about ones life, this alone can result
in new directions, new pursuits, new occupations and new relationships that are
more healthful and satisfying.
Roy
Masters likes to point out that this meditation is not a way to directly solve
problems, but a way to increase awareness. This will slowly bring new insights that can help solve most
problems. The principle is ‘the
truth will set you free. J.
Krishnamurti, a famous author, once said, “awareness brings its own
action”.
Mental
biofeedback. A principle used
in the science of biofeedback is “anything you can monitor, you can
change”. Meditation is a form of
biofeedback in that one monitors one’s thoughts and other mental
activities. As one does this,
thinking and feeling habits will change.
Confucius said “if you understand a problem deeply enough, you will have
the answer”. Meditation is a way
to study yourself ever more deeply.
This will bring answers to many problems.
Becoming more
objective. Meditation
is like carefully a studying a friend from an objective perspective. Often it is easier to solve friend’s
problems, because one is less involved.
The same will occur with one’s own problems as they are seen more
objectively. Common sense
will take over in many instances and help you solve your problem.
Learning to observe objectively. This meditation is a way to “gather the
facts” about oneself and one’s situation in a new way. The trick is not to judge what you see
or observe. Don’t say, “Oh, but
this can’t be. That person seems
so nice”.
Just
keep observing and ask only for the truth to be revealed. With enough insight, solutions to
problems become apparent. There is
no need or benefit to adding any new thoughts or ideas of your own. It is enough to see what is. The underlying premise is that you know
the answers. They are just
obscured by confusion and misperceptions.
This meditation is, in fact, a removal process. This differs from many exercises that
seek to “affirm away” or cover over negative or undesirable thoughts or
emotions.
Meditating
in order to solve a problem is not the correct motivation for meditation. One should not “meditate on
something”. However, it is fine to
begin with this motivation. Later
you can change your motive to just wanting greater awareness, which will in
turn bring answers in their own time.
In the meantime, if you do not know what to do about a problem, often it
is best to just wait. In your
helplessness, help will come.
STRESS REDUCTION
When
the head is filled with racing thoughts, one is often unaware of danger and
stress until it becomes extreme.
As one meditates regularly, one becomes aware of stress sooner and can
take faster action. One becomes
more like the wild animals who sense danger and react quickly, as by instinct.
For
example, it allows you to feel tensions in the body each moment, so one can
change posture, habits or other causes rather than let the tensions build up.
This
meditation reduces stress in dozens of other ways as well, such as reducing
negative and illusory thoughts and feelings, reducing stress on the nervous
system, and more.
A POSITIVE STRESSOR
Emptying
the self of the old and bringing in a new source of energy functions as a positive stressor. This means it stresses one, but in a
positive or beneficial way. It brings
in more truth, along with the subtle energy, so one can say it is the stress of
truth and awareness. This places a
spiritual stress on one that can result in character development.
The stress of needing
to change. This meditation exercise will show
one the truth about many things.
One is not forced to act on the information, but If one does not act,
the truth will be brought up over and over again. This is an interesting effect of increasing one’s
awareness. Sadly, it causes some
people to stop meditating, as they do not want to be reminded of certain
truths.
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT
The
most important benefit of this particular meditation is that the new source of
energy slowly develops the subtle or energy bodies of a person. Human beings are not aware of these
bodies and in most people they never develop to any significant extent. This is sad, however, because the
development of these bodies brings with it long life and health.
Human
beings all have six subtle physical or energy bodies. These are not visible, but can be felt and measured with the
proper electrical instruments.
This website describes them to a slight degree in an article entitled The Chakras And The Aura.
HOW TO MEDITATE
Below
is a description of the meditation practice. However, it is far easier, especially at first, to learn it
while listening to a compact disc program. Mr. Masters offers this exercise on a cassette tape or CD,
and I believe you can download it from his website.
I
also offer a CD with a few improvements, in my view. This CD is described on this website and available by clicking here
for the meditation CD.
The Basic Meditation Procedure:
Sit
in a straight-backed chair, with your arms hanging loosely at your side. A variation is to lie down and place
your hands at your sides. Close
your eyes.
Become
aware of your right hand. Just notice it.
Do not concentrate on it or visualize it, exactly. Just be aware of it and notice it. Do
not force anything to happen.
It
is often easier to be aware of one finger at a time rather than the whole hand
at once. Move your awareness from
finger to finger, but do not move your awareness to the rest of your body. Keep your awareness on your hand. It should start to tingle a little bit.
At
the same time, look through the middle of your forehead, as though you were
sitting inside your head and looking out. It should feel like you are sitting
inside a cave with nothing much to look at, so you just look straight
ahead. Do not roll your eyes up in
your head or do anything else.
Just look out of your head through the middle of your forehead.
Allow
and assist energy to flow into the top of the head and down the body to the
right hand. Encourage this energy
to flow by drawing it down into the body and them move it to the right
hand. Slowly this flow and the
tingling of the right hand will increase.
Eventually, you will allow and move the energy down from the head into
both hands and then into the feet as well. This is more advanced, but is another excellent aspect of
the exercise.
To
enhance the exercise, empty the body and mind and imagine the energy flowing
into the void or emptiness of the body.
You can imagine a giant vacuum cleaner or force pulling the energy down
from the top of the head and into the right hand and down to the feet. You can also imagine standing under a
giant shower or waterfall with the energy cascading down into the body and down
the front of the body. These
visualizations may help a process that is real, namely bringing the energy down
from the head to the feet as forcefully as you can.
Advanced ideas. Ways that an help move more energy
through the body include:
·
Pushing the body down, mentally, sort of like it is a
sponge and you can squeeze the body downward. I am not sure why this works, but it seems to move more
energy through.
·
Moving the attention from one finger to another. This was mentioned earlier.
·
Thinking of magnetizing a metal rod by continually
stroking it in one direction only.
·
Thinking of inducing a current in a wire (the body)
by moving energy through and around the body.
·
You can either or both push, or pull or draw the
energy down the front of the body.
Any visualization that you can think of to help with this may move more
energy down the body.
·
Move the energy not just down to the feet but
somewhat beyond or below the feet.
This also appears to help.
Distractions. You will probably find you cannot do the exercise for very
long without becoming distracted. Thoughts arise, as may songs, memories or things you
have to do later that day. Your
body may itch or hurt, or you may even fall asleep. Just observe the thoughts and feelings without judgment and
then bring your attention back to your hand.
Bring
the attention back to the right hand thousands of times, if needed. Slowly, your mind will learn not to
stray quite as much. You are training part of your mind to observe at all
times. Some days will be easier
than others.
Results. You may notice results within a week or less, or results may
take longer. You may feel calmer,
more detached, and you may gain insights.
Often the insights will not come while meditating. They may come while you are doing the
dishes or driving your car.
Each
time you meditate, you alter the way you perceive the world. You will see things slightly
differently. Some of what you see
may not be pleasant. Just watch it
all from a neutral place.
PROCEDURAL MATTERS
· Do the exercise as much as you can
and, if possible, at least twice a day. You can do it anytime and anywhere,
although certainly do not do it while driving or some other dangerous activity. Roy Masters teaches that eventually you will be
doing the exercise 24 hours a day.
· Each time you practice it, do the
exercise as though it were the first time. It should never become a habit or mechanical. Do it a little deeper each time.
· Make meditation part of your
lifestyle. Schedule it into your
day so you don’t overlook this important new part of your life.
· Be patient. Benefits come in their own time, not
when you think they should.
· Some days it will be easier to
meditate than others. Several
months to years may be required to refocus your mind. Just keep at it. It is something like training or
retraining an old dog or cat. It
may not be easy and the old reactive mind or ‘monkey mind’, as some call it,
will fight you hard at times to stay in control, and to keep you out of
control.
· If at all possible, be open to
seeing the truth about everything, and to waking up and seeing yourself as you
really are. You will see your faults and shortcomings. You will also become
aware of many qualities and abilities that you didn't know you had. This is all part of the process as you
become free of your past and all the false notions that you learned from your
environment.
WHAT TO DO IF YOU HAVE
TROUBLE MEDITATING
It
is perfectly normal to have difficulty meditating with this exercise at times,
particularly when starting out.
Here are several suggestions:
·
Make meditation part of your daily lifestyle.
·
Set things up so you have the time to do it in peace.
·
Turn off the phone and, if needed, arrange for
someone to watch children.
·
Go to the office early if you cannot meditate at
home.
·
Ideally, set up a special room and chair that you use
just for meditation.
·
On difficult days, think of disciplining an unruly
child who has been spoiled for 40 or more years. Sometimes it will resist a lot. Don’t worry about it.
Just say, “OK, we’ll do our best and perhaps better tomarrow.”
·
If you are an athlete or train at anything, you know
that training involves good and bad days.
Just take it all in stride.
Meditation involves discipline, which comes from the same root as the
word ‘disciple’. It is not about
forcing things. It is about gently
staying with or following your path and the results will come.
Gimmicks. Use gimmicks to help you stay with meditation. An excellent gimmick, if it can be
called that, is to use a CD or cassette tape to help you maintain your focus
and to time your sessions.
Another
gimmick is to do the exercise while walking slowly, if you cannot sit still, as
I have had trouble doing. I also
learned to meditate while doing a coffee enema that was part of a physical
healing program I undertook. It
was a perfect time to meditate, as I was forced to lie still for 20 minutes or
so while retaining the enema.
Any
place you are confined to a chair such as during an airplane flight or at a
pleasant concert can be an excellent place to meditate. Meditate in the bathroom stall if that
is the only peaceful place where you find yourself.
HOW TO COPE WITH WHAT
COMES UP
One
reason some do not continue with meditation is the fact that, at times,
negative thoughts and feelings within you will be revealed and this can be very
disconcerting. If possible, learn
to just observe whatever comes up during meditation. Be grateful for seeing the truth, even if it is unpleasant. You do not have to react in any
way. Definitely do not judge
yourself or others. If you wallow
in your thoughts or insights, it will keep them around. It is best to view all thoughts,
emotions and insights as you would view clouds in the sky. As they arise, just observe them and let
them go.
HOW DOES THIS
MEDITATION DIFFER FROM THE OTHER EXERCISES?
Prayer is not so different from this
meditation in some ways. Both
involve asking and emptying the self, for example. However, many times prayer is a more rote exercise for
people involving just the repeating of various words and phrases. This is not the same. This meditation does not require or
involve any words or phrases or mantras at all. In fact, it is purely energetic and if you add any words,
prayers or mantras to it, you will either negate it altogether or at least
weaken its effect.
However,
to say a prayer at the beginning, and even for a while at the end to help with
closure, is fine. But realize the
exercise is very specific to bring in a new energy by emptying the self of the
old.
Prayers
also often specific rituals and doctrines. This meditation requires no doctrine whatsoever. The only ritual is to empty the self
and allow and even force the energy down from the head into the hand and
eventually the feet. That is
all. One’s religion, nationality
or belief systems do not matter in the least.
In
fact, this is a danger with this meditation, in that anyone can use it for his
or her benefit, even if the person is not the most honest or high integrity
person. This is a danger with this
method. I am not too concerned,
however, because the exercise takes a fair amount of work and dedication to
receive the benefits.
Is it a religion? This exercise is certainly not a
religion, and can be done by anyone, as stated above. However, I see it as the basis for a new religion,
perhaps. The reason is that it is
a way to get in touch with oneself, which is the real meaning and desire of
religions. The danger, of course,
is that someone will design a religion around the exercise and fill it with
other rituals and doctrines until the basic exercise is forgotten. This has happened before in history.
Is it relaxation, visualization,
self-hypnosis and concentration? The exercise
does involve some visualization and some concentration. However, these are not the goal or the
central focus of the exercise.
That is how it differs from most of these other exercises. This meditation is certainly not
self-hypnosis, a concept that is the very opposite of wanting to remove or
eliminate all hypnotic tendencies of the mind.
Repetition
of words, phrases or mantras tends to produce a somewhat hypnotic state, and
this is one reason this is not employed with this exercise.
What about breathing
with the exercise? This is not required. Adding special breathing, such as
counting to 10, or holding the mouth or tongue a special way, can definitely
distract one and slow progress with this exercise.
If
one wishes, a very simple breathing method called circle breathing may be used
an might enhance progress. One
simply moves energy up the back during the inhale and down the front of the
body on the exhale. That is all
there is to it. However, recall
that one is supposed to be moving energy down the body at all times, so this
should be done as well. In fact,
energy will circulate this way – up the back and down the front –
to some degree. However, pushing
the energy or drawing the energy down the front is by far the most critical and
important.
MEDITATION AND THE PURPOSE OF LIFE
I instinctively
love this meditation practice because I feel it concerns some basic qualities
of life on a metaphysical level:
· Self-awareness. This is a purely human trait, one not shared much by animals or other
life forms. This meditation
directly assists anyone to increase self-awareness.
· Healing. While diet, lifestyle, nutritional
supplements and detoxification are all critical and never to be overlooked, the
mind is also very important for healing.
It is either your friend and ally or, in many people, it just gets in
the way. Worry, fears, desires,
racing around all the time and other things use up most people’s energy. This meditation can do a lot to bring
the mind under your control and learn to use it to assist healing on many
levels.
· Spiritual development. The
development of the subtle bodies is everyone’s birthright as a human
being. Very few, however, make
much progress with it. This
meditation allows it and assists it easily. This can extend life and allow achievements that most people
cannot even imagine. We have all
read about these types of unfoldment of super-human abilities. This meditation may allow this in your
personal life journey.
Most
people live the ego lifestyle, going from goal to goal, often trampling others
to achieve their goals. Meditation
allows you to grow from the inside. You will find, if you do the exercise
regularly, that your outer life, work, relationships, family matters and more
will change for the better, often in unusual ways. As you meditate, you let go of the blocks that are in the
way of your happiness and success.
References
Masters, R., How Your Mind Can
Keep You Well, The Foundation of Human Understanding, Grants Pass, Oregon, www.fhu.com.
To obtain a CD from us with the enhanced meditation exercise
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